Losing hope!

[wantingformytime]

Hi everyone, you guys are the only ones who know how I feel!

I'm 30 DH is 33 trying for over 12mths dr thinks i have POAS, done at home op kits for 6 months and have 3 ovulation bloods. Home sticks say I'm about to ovulate but the bloods big negative. Dh due sperm test in November. My bmi is just over 30 dr said I dont ovulate likely due to my weight, the 2nd dr I spoke to today (gave me my 3rd neg blood results) said we need to be trying for over 2 years before they will consider referral, but if my bmi is 30 or over they can refuse to help.

Since ttc every body is getting pregnant or had a baby no issues or by accident - deep down I know something is wrong.

The thought of not having my own baby is killing me.

I have no advice, but I just want to say as hard as things may seem, never lose hope! And I wish you and your husband all the best for the future ❤️💐

I'm 28 and have pcos. Didn't develop it until after DC2. We tried for dc3 for a long time and nothing happened in 3 years so we gave up. Anyway, I lost weight and after 1 night of unprotected sex, I'm now 20 weeks pregnant with DC3.

With pcos, the best thing you can do is lose weight if you want to conceive. Low carb worked for me as it helps with the insulin resistance associated with pcos.