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Why can't I sleep?!

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crazymuseummumtobe · 14/09/2019 01:34

Oh this is so unfair, why can't I get to sleep? I'm 21+2. Feeling very ungainly and sluggish already, but cosily propped on my left side in bed, perfectly comfortable, not too hot or cold... But it's two-and-a-half hours since we switched the light out and I'm still wide awake. Sleep just isn't coming. I've never been great at dropping off but this feels like a new low.

Doesn't help that DH is a lucky git who is consistently fast asleep (and snoring, I wear earplugs) within 30 seconds of lights out.

What can I do? I feel like I want to cry...

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Leleophants · 14/09/2019 02:20

I've had this constantly. I'd get up, walk around and sit somewhere else for a bit. Maybe even have a snack (but not sugary!) then go back to bed later. I've been so exhuasted before that I'm almost in tears and fighting back my eyes closing and yet once I go upstairs to bed Confused

I think letting yourself have brief naps in the day is the only way and preparing for baby, as sleep at night is just a bit rubbish! Normally that wouldn't work but I think for pregnancy it's a must.

LividLaughLove · 14/09/2019 05:08

I can get to sleep fine, usually zonked by 7pm. But can I stay asleep after any wee post midnight?
NOPE.

crazymuseummumtobe · 14/09/2019 18:28

Thanks for your message, ladies. I'm glad it's not just me. Fingers crossed for tonight!

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579kirsty · 14/09/2019 19:17

I’ve been having this recently! No problem getting to sleep but as soon as I wake up in the middle of the night I’m awake for hours - I’ve found it best to accept I’m not getting back to sleep straight away and head downstairs and watch a bit of tv until I fall asleep again!
Apparently pregnancy insomnia is a thing!

ilovemykids5 · 14/09/2019 19:51

Struggling too. 28 weeks. Fall asleep at 10 then wake for a pee at 2 and that's my lot. Absolutely shattered all day.

horse4course · 14/09/2019 20:37

Hypnobirthing/Hypno sleep tracks on headphones.

It actually helps for preparing for sleepless nights with a baby, if it's any consolation.

hlo91 · 15/09/2019 15:15

I'm exhausted 24/7, but when I get into bed.. I'm in pain or heartburn or uncomfy or just suddenly wide awake.
I genuinely cried the other night I was that tired

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