Thanks, Betsy - mine is 38 + 5 exactly today. Oh, it's my first too.
Lulumama - yes, have tried everything sadly - moxi, pulsatilla, reflexology, swimming, positioning, positive thinking, an uncomfortable ECV, frozen peas on the bump (which did make it wiggle about lots!) and yoga. Pah. The baby is obviously pretty comfy where it is, sadly. I didn't start a lot of these until I was about 35 weeks, which may well have been too late, as everyone told me not to worry and that the baby would probably turn. Statistically, they were right.
Hospital will allow a vaginal delivery, but they have a particular 'package' regarding breech deliveries which usually involves an epidural to help stop me pushing before being dilated, stirrups and a preventative episiotomy. All things I was so keen to avoid. I still can, but I have to actively opt out of them and it's been made clear to me that there are risks involved if I do. I know it's daft to feel so disappointed, but I had a clear vision of what I wanted and have done lots of reading around it and know that if I could afford and find a good independent midwife, I'd stand a chance of getting the birth experience I want. I'm prepared to accept a c-section should labour not progress as that's the current wisdom, but I'm worried that because I don't like hospitals at the best of times, I won't progress with a scapel-wielding ob hanging around me.
Sorry, long whinge - been at the hospital today to discuss my options and it's a bit in the forefront of my mind