Loss of symptoms at 4-5 weeks

[Hope1408]

Hello, I am worrying. So i have had 2 consecutive miscarriages and whilst i was pregnant both them times i felt really sick and tired and 'felt pregnant' both of those pregnancies sadly ended at 4/5 weeks. This pregnancy I don't feel pregnant at all if anything i feel normal. My boobs did hurt mild pain only hurt when i touched them, but last night that disappeared and didn't come back. Had a few twinges today in my abdominal area but its not painful or intense. has anyone been though the same experience of not feeling pregnant and then losing breast tenderness. just so worried and anxious about miscarrying about. my doctor wont scan until 9 weeks and that seems so long away.

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Hi Hope! I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriages I don't know how helpful other people's anecdotes are, but in case it gives you some encouragement I also had very minimal symptoms for the first month or two, which disappeared for a few weeks before the nausea really hit around week 9. I'm now 24 weeks with a very active little boy!
I did a lot of googling when my symptoms disappeared because it's so worrying, and many women said the same had happened to them - it seems it's quite common.
I hope all goes well for you and you get some reassurance soon!

Thank you so much for your reply. I’m probably just worrying over nothing. I have a midwife appointment on the 6th August it just seems so far away. I will just have to keep myself busy until then. Thank you for your replay I really appreciate it x

Sorry about your past losses I've had a few too so know how anxious this early stage is. Symptoms do come and go especially every early. They usually kick in more around 6 weeks but even after that it's common for them to fluctuate

I have basically no symptoms with my healthy pregnancies

Sorry for your losses
I had no pregnancy symptoms until about 16 weeks when I had tender boobs for about 4 days. I now have a happy healthy 16 day old little boy ☺️

@Mintypea5 I’m so sorry for your losses. I’m absolutely terrified then I start feeling guilty for thinking the worst. I just wish I felt really sick all the time with sore boobs then I would at least know everything is okay. thank you so much for your message I really appreciate it. I’m so glad for you that you have had a healthy pregnancy x

@FairyDust92 oh my goodness I’m so happy you have a happy healthy little boy! I’m so glad there is other people who haven’t had hardly any or no pregnancy symptoms until later on. I was worried because the last 2 pregnancies that ended in miscarriage I felt sick and my boobs hurt and I felt pregnant then all my symptoms faded away and a few days later I miscarried and I was terrified that this is what was happening this time. But I haven’t felt pregnant since I found out I was pregnant, but I did have slightly sore boobs but that’s completely gone now. Hopefully everything is okay and we have a healthy happy baby in March. I have a midwife appointment in 2 weeks but that seems ages away XX