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Am I Pregnant?! So confused!!! Help!

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Msmercer · 01/07/2019 16:23

Hi everyone, first timer here and I’m so not used to this or how things work so hopefully you guys can clear somethings up for me.

My LMP was 10.05.19, I tested positive on 10.06.19. When I went to my initial doctors they told me I was 6 weeks pregnant from my dates (last Monday) so I booked an early scan for Sunday (yesterday) for when I was 7 weeks. The scans were advertised from 6.

I went in and told them my LMP and they said I was 7w and 2d pregnant, they did the scan and told me I was measuring at 6w, there was no fetal pole or yolk sac.

Rushed down to the EPU this morning to be told my cervix is still tightly sealed, my lack of miscarriage symptoms look like all is fine etc. He also said that the private Sonographers were incorrect, and pregnancy is not measured from your LMP but your conception date. He asked when I ovulated (roughly the 26th May), he added 5 days on for implantation and told me I was actually only 4/5 weeks which is why I couldn’t see anything on the scan.

He took my blood and has sent it to the lab, and has asked me to come back on Wednesday to see if my HCG has doubled.

He said that the private Sonographers didn’t seem very good, and that I should’ve waited for my NHS scan.

Firstly, has anyone else got any experience with this? Right now I’m in limbo, been told by my sonographer it was game over and to expect the worst - been told by the doctor all seems ok!

Secondly, is there anything I can do or someone I can complain to with the Sonographers? They totally got my dates wrong and as a first time pregnant woman I’m not to know!!! I lost out on £100 and had a traumatising 24 hours. My work now knows because I was so distraught I didn’t turn up today! I feel like they should NOT advertise early scans, they are way too unpredictable, and they should also accurately do people’s dates!

Any advice or stories for me ladies??

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AllFourOfThem · 01/07/2019 16:28

I’m with your private sonograoher here. Until a scan at around 12 weeks (earlier or later tend to not be as accurate) your due date is based on your LMP unless you know for certain when you conceived. If you know when you conceived then you deduct two weeks from it as you are not pregnant in the first fortnight of pregnancy. For many women with a 28 day cycle, they ovulate on day 14 so day 1 (their LMP start date) is their first day of pregnancy.

Bananacity · 01/07/2019 16:31

Early scans always seem to cause a lot more unnecessary stress, and are never a confirmation that everything is fine! It's always worth waiting until your 12 week scan, even though it feels like forever!

I'm not sure why a doctor would have said you're dated from conception as you are definitely dated from LMP until dating scan when it usually shifts a few days!

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