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buying baby things before the 12 weeks mark..............

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iliketosleep · 25/07/2007 17:01

does anyone do it?

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flowerybeanbag · 25/07/2007 17:48

ILTS you seem so excited - that's so lovely, I'm thrilled for you

iliketosleep · 25/07/2007 17:49

im sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo excited

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sweetkitty · 25/07/2007 17:51

iliketosleep - good for you it is very exciting and if it's your first half the stuff you buy you won't use but it has to be done part of the fun!

Your on the Due in March 2007 thread too aren't you theres so many on there I forget.

iliketosleep · 25/07/2007 17:54

no its my 4th but it stays just as exciting hehehe yer i am for now until i find out my exact due date

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geekgirl · 25/07/2007 17:55

yes - bought a little outfit after my dating scan at 9 weeks (was shopping with my mum and we were just overcome with excitement )

iliketosleep · 25/07/2007 18:29

its too easy isnt it, although for everything ive brought i have had a little niggling feeling at the back of my mind never mind im tooooo excited

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dal21 · 25/07/2007 18:33

congrats ILTS! Each to their own. I didnt buy anything til after the 20 week scan either....but everyone is different!

iliketosleep · 25/07/2007 18:34

thanks dal

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lljkk · 25/07/2007 18:35

I am 12wks+2, also expecting No. 4 -- after giving away most of the stuff I had for Numbers 1-3. And I haven't bought anything. I am researching 3-wheelers, admittedly.

I always think the high risk of miscarriage period doesn't end until you hit 14 weeks, tbh. And I know plenty people who lost a pregnancy much later than that, too.

iliketosleep · 25/07/2007 18:46

If im honest losing the baby does worry me, consistently for the whole 9 months, which is why i have invested in a heartbeat doppler, the worrying starts from conception and never ever stops so why let it get in the way of the excitment? My eldest dd is 7 on friday and i still worry about her as much as i did when she was inside my tummy!

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morningglory · 25/07/2007 18:56

I had my DS's nursery all kitted out by the time I hit my 3rd trimester (including babygros pre-washed and sorted for up to 6 months). I'm just a manic planner, and I was blissfully naive that anything would go wrong.

After a mc in April, I've been much more cautious...although it's been really difficult to go by all the georgeous baby clothes on sale and not buy (I'm a sucker for sales).

I'm an extreme, but it is important to plan ahead. My nursery furniture took 5 month to get, so I was really happy I had ordered early.

lljkk · 25/07/2007 18:58

Not everyone is so keen on shopping, though, believe it or not, some of us are women yet still find shopping not much more enjoyable than any other utility activity (like clipping toenails). Especially if you have to drag small children with you, or guilty leave your DH in charge of 3 lively little beasts while cooing at the displays in Mamas & Papas.

And it's too early to even know which cute boy or girl clothes to buy.

Then you gotta find somewhere to store the new stuff, and then if the pregnancy does fall apart how to dispose of the new kit if you can't stomach trying again (well, MY stomach has declared no way ever again). So I might never get to use anything I bought and then I'd be kicking m'self adding up how much I spent for no purpose.

Plus, the later you wait to buy anything the more likely someone will just give you a good quality second hand version of exactly what you wanted.... or even offer to buy it as a gift new! (Or does that never happen with 4th pregnancies, I wonder?).

Not to say you shouldn't shop if you want to. Think maybe I admire someone who isn't purely practical like I am about it all.

iliketosleep · 25/07/2007 19:19

guiltly leave other 3 with dp??? they are his kids too!! and its his fault im like this to start with lol

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Imawurzel · 25/07/2007 19:24

I am 17+3 and the only things i ahev are what my freind bought round the other day, 2 body suits and a baby wrap.
My mum is takine me looking at pushchairs in october sometime .I will thrn think about buying bits and bobs.
I'm thikning i'm going to but stuff too small or too big. and baby won't have anything to wear.

iliketosleep · 25/07/2007 19:28

i always buy newborn and my little sparrows are to small for it so im playing clever and going for early baby this time

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Imawurzel · 25/07/2007 19:34

That is what i think i shall do.
I dont think it'll be a small baby.

RGPargy · 25/07/2007 19:51

iliketosleep - the only reason i haven't bought anything is because of superstition and also because i've not really felt any kicks (just wiggles) so it still doesn't seem that real to me yet lol.

iliketosleep · 25/07/2007 19:58

aww lol wont be long till your being kept up all night while los booting you in the ribs

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hayley2u · 25/07/2007 20:05

i think i actually bought a bib saying mummy loves dadddy and other way round,. just get excited but i knew i was going to find out what sex baby was. and as soon as i found out out that went and boughtloads of pink dresses that night. think its to hard not to x

swalesie · 26/07/2007 09:22

I bought most of his things in the 8th month, i always leave things to the last minuet.

Jojay · 26/07/2007 09:26

I bought loads of stuff early on too -you go for it if you want to!!!!

potoroo · 26/07/2007 09:51

I got around my fear of not wanting to buy to early by planning and research in the early months.

I had a massive Excel spreadsheet with the list of all the things that I wanted to buy and the prices and different stores etc. I started it around 12 weeks I think.

Then when I got to about 30 weeks I started buying.

(This time around I have done nothing. I am nearly 32 weeks and I have a vague idea that I need a Moses basket ... )

MrsBadger · 26/07/2007 10:06

not a chance - I didn't even consider buying anything before the 20wk scan.

fulfilled the shopping urge by buying maternity clothes instead and, like poteroo, by doing buckets of research about prams, nappies, cots... well, everything

Did the Mothercare trip at 34wks, built the cot and chest opf drawers at 35wks, pram, moses basket and a few clothes to be delivered at 37wks...

jaz2 · 26/07/2007 10:46

Didn't buy anything until 36 weeks...too superstitious (and DH wouldn't let me)! By then even my long-suffering clients at work were getting worried that I hadn't bought anything and were telling me to forget delivering the reports we was doing (that were overdue), and to get myself down to John Lewis!

The only exception being a cute top in an independent shop in Cornwall which I bought at 32 weeks.

jacobandlysette · 26/07/2007 12:12

i bought a little outfit at 12 weeks, and being the planner i am had set myself different things to buy each month to spread the cost out.

ds then came at 32 weeks and i was in hospital for just over 2 weeks before so i had to get people to buy things for me that i had set aside to buy then - BIL's gf had to go and buy nursing bras for me!

we were lucky that ds was let out of scbu at 35 weeks, so it was much earlier than EDD.

for me the planning worked but it's different for everyone!

enjoy it!

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