Told to 'expect the worst'

[SamRwl]

So ....by my last period (23.04.19) it puts me at 8+3 weeks pregnant we paid for an early scan last Sunday and she said I was measuring at 5+5 there was a sack and a yolk but no fetal pole or heartbeat, told me to go back in 2 weeks,

We went for another scan today at a different place and she says it doesn’t look good as I’m still only measuring 5+6 she said there is a fetal pole still no heartbeat and to expect the worst and she’s referring me to EPU Monday morning and looks like I have a little bleed just above the sack

Has anyone else had this??
It's going to be a long wait until Monday, so I loose all hope completely!?
I don't know what to do ...
I just feel hopeless ....

To make things worse I've just started with bad morning sickness, she said because the sack is growing I will still experience symptoms as normal 😞
Finding this really had to take in

Didn't want to read and run. I'm so sorry you're going through this really anxious time. Hope you're being well looked after. Is there any chance things could still be okay? Sending you a virtual hand hold

I’m sorry that this should be a wonderful time and has suddenly become so stressful and challenging. I’m hesitant to try to reassure you as false hope can be more upsetting.... but please wait until you’re advised by an experienced medical person. Whatever the outcome, please look after yourself and your partner.

Sorry you're going through this. I've been there too it's an awful time and the waiting is terrible.

Was it an internal scan? Just because my friend had similar and they couldn't see much on the abdominal but internal showed more promising stuff

If you've not had much growth in 2 weeks then it's possible it's a MC this time. Try not to drove yourself crazy thinking about over the weekend. The epu will be able to give you advice Monday xx

Thanks all, had a bit of a sleepless night but starting to come to terms with it now x

Just had a scan and there is a beautiful heartbeat I can't believe it, I just burst out crying !!!
Everything looks good I'm just a lot earlier on than I thought ! Only 6 weeks instead of 9 xx

That is great news, huge congratulations xx

That's fantastic news!

Amazing news!!! So pleased for you!

Just had a scan and there is a beautiful heartbeat I can't believe it, I just burst out crying !!!

That was me to a T almost 10 years ago! My little bean is now slamming doors and sulking

What a lovely update OP

I'm so pleased for you OP!

Congratulations on your pregnancy.

How wonderful...I'm so so happy for you!! 😊

Brilliant news. Enjoy a happy healthy pregnancy.