Had 2 normal vaginal births and laboured normally with dc3 but ended up with an emcs (looong and unusual story that's unlikely to repeat).
Currently expecting dc4 and considering a vbac. Tbh, my recovery from emcs was ok and relatively quick/painless but I hated being stuck in hospital for a week (mandatory where I live) and being unable to drive/lift etc.
Did a vbac work for you? Were the midwives encouraging of it? And how long between your cs and your vbac? There'll be just over 3 years between mine.