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kkl1 · 07/06/2019 20:18

Now I no pregnancy is a wonderful thing and so many people would love to be in this situation but at the same time I just need to have a place we're I can moan an every one eles understands an we can all chat together about it sorry if this has come across like I'm not great full for this baby I am very much an very wanted baby

Im 15 weeks tomor and I'm loving it but at the same time I hate it. I have 2 other children and work so I'm just so tired all the time but that is the only symptom I have so then I'm also in a constant worry that something is wrong and not all is going to be okay

Pregnancy is such a worry and scary time I don't won't to wish it to go faster I just would like to get to the point we're I can few baby move so I'm not worrying all the time any one eles feel the same

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Harley77 · 08/06/2019 01:58

I'm only 7weeks 5 days and having a few unpleasant symptoms. I am very happy to be preg but struggling. I feel sick morning to evening, emotionally tearful and worried something might go wrong miscarried last time. And my boobs are sore also tired all the time. Feel quite alone too as doctors don't support you just get you booked in for appointment with midwife which is quite a wait. Luckily was told about folic acid tabs but feel some people should be told this from a doctor not by chance in a book or word of mouth. I have had my moan lol. I can't sleep as slept to much in day.

qj17 · 08/06/2019 02:40

I'm 33 weeks and I have horrendous heartburn all the time, awful rib pain and am so uncomfy!!

MummaBear2Be2019 · 08/06/2019 03:09

I'm 32 weeks and even though i was excited when i found out i was pregnant at 4 weeks after being told as a teenager it was highly unlikely i would ever conceive, i have been miserable the entire pregnancy! There has been a lot of drama with the father and other personal things which really has not helped. I had horrendous sickness until week 22, lost alot of weight (which i must admit was a good thing!) but now my back hurts constantly, my hips hurt, i struggle to move around in bed. Heartburn has started now and man, what a bitch that can be! And don't get me started on sleeping, I can't remember the last full night sleep i had! I used to be one of those women, begrudgingly jealous of pregnant women but now i honestly cannot wait until my child is born and i get my body back (even though it will never look or feel the same 😂)

qj17 · 08/06/2019 03:36

I also can't sleep at all I'm literally wide awake right now.

mylittlenugget · 08/06/2019 03:52

35 weeks and I'm over this 😂 haven't slept a full night in months, got a baby who never moves during the day but decides the best time to stretch is 2am using the mattress as a base, heartburn has been a constant feature and honestly the tablets aren't doing anything anymore. My hips also hurt so bad all the time and it's getting to the stage even sitting in the bath is killing me. Also whoever decided to tell pregnant women braxton Hicks don't hurt is an arsehole, they're just as bad as period pains (very painful periods usually) or sometimes worse! First few times I had them I thought I was going into labour because all my apps tell me they shouldn't hurt!

kkl1 · 08/06/2019 11:01

I get so jellous that I'm only 15 weeks an every one eles is so much further then me haha I no my time will come an it will be good but I just wish I could feel this baby move it would be so much easier then the constant worry an yes what is sleep haha I haven't slept proberly since 6 weeks Sad

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IcelandicYoghurt · 08/06/2019 12:15

I fucking hate it tbh. Feel so sick all the bloody time. My diet has gone to shit as I'm mostly eating shitty white carbs to try to stop the queasyness. Always feel too sick and or too tired to exercise. And my super cute cat has become something I dread coming home to because I can't stand the smell (he's honestly not that smelly usually). I'm only 12 weeks Sad

IcelandicYoghurt · 08/06/2019 12:17

Oh and I don't have a particularly pronounced bump yet but my stomach is incredibly tender. Can't stand wearing tights so I've had to buy (not particularly flattering) maternity trousers already for work. Ugh

HJWT · 08/06/2019 12:34

I so know how you feel! Iv had nausea since 5/6 weeks & dizziness now 21 weeks and have heartburn, acne, growing hair like a gorilla 😂 and so exhausted! Sick of DD sitting on me and getting my belly out lol very cute of her though xx

greyby25 · 08/06/2019 13:06

I'm 23 + 3 with unexpected identical twins, my bump is massive, my stretch marks from my previous pregnancy are purple and itchy and I'm in the midst of an eczema flare up and I can't even put my own shoes on anymore. I have braxton hicks a lot and they make my bump like a rock, and I can't turn over in bed without it being a workout. Oh and all I crave is everything bad for me and I'd only just reached my post baby weight from my previous pregnancy when I found out I was pregnant 🤦🏻‍♀️ and my hormones make me not like my partners dog 🙄

SillySallyStruthers · 08/06/2019 13:25

14+5 really bad trapped wind, heartburn. Still got morning sickness all day and night! Envy Aching constantly and eating crap. Getting breathless doing things and gained a load of weight. Can't wait for baby to be here. Feels like forever away Sad glad I'm not the only one struggling!

HJWT · 08/06/2019 14:11

@greyby25 you win 💐😂

kkl1 · 08/06/2019 17:13

Haha I love how we can just moan an no one saying it's wrong of us I'm only 15 weeks an I'm huge but defo not having twins I've had a bump for a long time already as it's my 3rd 25 weeks and counting

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sl07 · 08/06/2019 17:17

I'm 14+2 and feeling sick still, not eating properly. Also feeling lonley as my partners been away for a few days.

Can't bear the thought of work on Monday:( just overall feeling fed up

kkl1 · 08/06/2019 18:33

I no how u feel see my mum lives across the road from me but she doesn't won't me to have this baby my sister has 3 an I already have 2 and she said she don't won't no more grandchildren
But with this pregnancy I'm so angry all the time so the oh annoys the fuck out of me any one eles have the same feeling

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Bluebutterfly90 · 08/06/2019 19:26

I feel like I can't moan about anything because I lost my previous two early on and I so badly want this one.
At the same time I'm having a rough time of it, I've gone off most food because of the nausea.
But still, a part of me is convinced if I say anything slightly negative then it's bad luck! I know it's mad!

cocodash · 08/06/2019 19:30

I'm 36+4. This is my first baby.
To be fair I've had a really easy pregnancy and loved every min.... Until now.

I can no longer get off the couch unaided. Or get my socks off... Or my shoes on.
I got stuck in the fuckin bath last night, last week I cried over a chicken korma, I no longer walk but waddel everywhere.
I can't go 10mins without some sort of pain making me go oouucchhh.
Baby constantly punches down into my vaj giving me proper lightening fanny daggers, I need to stop at top of our stairs to get my breath back. My hips hurt. My back hurts. I can't stand on my feet for longer than 15mins.
I moan constantly. About everything and anything. I've moaned about how much I'm moaning.
I need to pee constantly. Getting comfortable is a mission. Then once I'm comfy I need to pee again.
I'm tired ALL THE TIME
Can't remember what a decent sleep is.
My husband snores so I'm constantly plotting his death during the night.

On the plus side. I'm proper nesting so my house is fucking gleaming.

Fully planning to do it all again though for baby number 2.

motherofcats81 · 08/06/2019 19:33

Oh I know, i am not loving being pregnant at all! I mean I love having the baby inside me, though of course I worry all the time about whether it's ok, but apart from that it is rubbish. I am 15 weeks plus 2, the fatigue is endless, I pick up every cold/virus out there (I'm almost ten days into one now and no sign of improvement), and I've put on loads of weight due to the fatigue and nausea.

I can't wait for the baby, but I will not miss being pregnant at all!

AnotherRubberDuck · 08/06/2019 19:46

I'm a week overdue. Enough said!
I thought this hell would be over by now 😭

It's been recently scientifically concluded that pregnancy is at the limit to what the human body can endure ( link ) so moan away ladies!!

motherofcats81 · 08/06/2019 20:31

Yes I saw that study!! I have been talking about it quite a lot ☺️

motherofcats81 · 08/06/2019 20:31

Hope your baby comes soon @AnotherRubberDuck

smartcarnotsosmartdriver · 08/06/2019 20:40

OP I'm right there with you, I'm 15 weeks and developed PGP at week 10. I am not loving this at all. I really want to be a mum and can't wait to meet our child but I am not good at being pregnant.

Marty93 · 08/06/2019 21:12

Hello all hope you don't mind me chiming in. I'm
9+3 so super early days still.... and just in agony with wisdom tooth pain. It needs taking out I've been told however they won't touch me until I'm in my second trimester. So literally counting down the days until I reach 12 weeks so I can get a referral to a specialist! So aside from the sickness, I have the toothache and have basically lost 9lbs so far in around 2.5 weeks. Just feeling a bit fed up and sorry for myself ! Hope you are all ok x

FrancesV83 · 08/06/2019 21:21

I’m 28 weeks today and generally the pregnancy is good except for sleeping which seems to be impossible. I have PGP so I have a wedge pillow to prop my belly on and another pillow between my knees. Turning over in bed is a military operation!
I have also started getting the most awful calf/foot cramps and have to get out of bed and walk around in the middle of the night.
My little man is so active at night, it feels like he’s doing the Irish jig in there! Smile

badluckmum · 08/06/2019 21:25

I'm 30 weeks with my second and already fed up. I tend to carry high up and quite big. I was told my daughter was going to be over 10 pounds and she was only just over 5... (I had pre-eclampsia) ... Same is happening this time. I've been massive for aaages. So tired of the shocked looks I get when I ask how far I am. I burst into tears at one woman's reaction in a Tesco's. Hormones don't help hehe

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