Just to chat moan anything about pregnancy

[kkl1]

Now I no pregnancy is a wonderful thing and so many people would love to be in this situation but at the same time I just need to have a place we're I can moan an every one eles understands an we can all chat together about it sorry if this has come across like I'm not great full for this baby I am very much an very wanted baby

Im 15 weeks tomor and I'm loving it but at the same time I hate it. I have 2 other children and work so I'm just so tired all the time but that is the only symptom I have so then I'm also in a constant worry that something is wrong and not all is going to be okay

Pregnancy is such a worry and scary time I don't won't to wish it to go faster I just would like to get to the point we're I can few baby move so I'm not worrying all the time any one eles feel the same

I cannot get a comfy bra! Whenever I put my
Bra on my Ribs are agony!
I'm wearing an m and s maternity bra and it isn't tight under my boobs (Iv tried an extender too) I just cannot
Get comfy!
Ahhhhhh

@qj17 I bought a bra from peacocks, it's a seamless kinda of crop bra (cannot for the life of me remember the name so I hope you understand that 😂) best bra ive ever worn and never uncomfortable

qj17
I've got a lovely maternity bra from Mothercare that is comfy. The other lifesaver I've found are my sports crop tops. New balance have a great selection.

I need a moan. I am sick to death of the constant peeing!!! I just want one night where I don't need to get up to pee six times 😫 I drank a large iced tea the other day and had to pee 3 times in half an hour. Seriously, 3 times in half an hour - wtf?! 😤

12 weeks and second day of migraine just given in and had a coffee which has helped pain but sure little one is doing back flips, I know it's supposed to be too early to feel but such a strange feeling down there, no pain just odd!

I ran between shops today in the rain and now I can barely walk the pain in my nether regions is something else!! It's fine when I'm still but OMG when I walk! What have I done 🤣

@mylittlenugget glad to hear everything is ok. pregnancy really is tough.

I've ballooned all of a sudden, well, even more so with my twins, but we hit our viability milestone on Thursday, and I got to see my girls on ultrasound as we have scans every 2 weeks, but my bumps got even bigger. 12 weeks to go and I'm dreading how big I'm going to be 😫

greystar30
The pee struggle is real.

What I don't understand is how I'm drinking loads, peeing loads and still seem to have darker pee than is ideal. It's the fluid mystery.

I've got a big moan to do right now I'm sorry everyone

So my baby's dad isn't the dad to my other girls but his being so selfish an nasty atm he started drinking and taking drugs loads since he had a conversation with his dad that isn't in his life an his now depressed over it but his turned to drink an drugs and his so horrible to me tonight I've tried to kick him out an he wouldn't leave his just gone to sleep but I have 2 other children and it's not fair on them I just had anoth now I get his depressed but this isn't shit I won't to deal with while I have health anxiety and in constant worry that somthing bad has happened to the baby he constantly just tells me to fuck off and that I'm a cunt cause he doesn't believe his in the wrong for what his doing then tonight he rang his mum telling her his gonna take his life when I no he was just doing it for attention but I'm the mug that's left to deal with him as no one eles in his family will take him in I've just really had anoth now

I'm sorry for the rant just really drained from it all

Aaah nearly 4am and been up since 1am, insomnia is reaaaal 😂 6+5 and these wee hours of the morning are the only let up from my nausea that I’ve had since 4 week pregnant 🥴 I’m enjoying the peaceful moment by watching teen mom 2 with my cats while DH is blissfully snoozing away

Taking any win that I can at the moment 👍🏻

Oh god @kkl1 I hope things are okay this morning! You shouldn't have to leave but is there anyone you and your children could stay with for a few days? I don't really know much about these situations but didn't want to say nothing. Hoping the best for you

Mylittlenugget well I hope he is leaving today tbh and no not really as I have work an the girls have school so it's a bit difficult I just really thought him having a baby would of made him sort his self out the baby wasn't planned at all so I get it wasn't somthing we were tryin for but both happy baby has come I'm just so drained atm so I just don't no what todo atm

@kkl1 I am sorry to hear you are having a crap time with your partner.

It sounds as though he needs help, drink and drugs to block out emotions are never going to work. Nor will having a baby make him sort himself out. I assume he lives with you and your girls? Shouldn't that make him sort himself out?

Suggest he goes to the doctor's, don't have any alcohol in the house and have a zero tolerance for drugs. This is a role model to your children and supposedly your loving partner !

Book him a doctor's appointment and start from there.

X

@kkl1 that does sound awful, I feel for you. Definitely not the stress you need x

Hey his leaving here today as I will not have it round my children yes I would of thought it would of been better him being around us but it hasn't so this is the only thing we can do doctors have been booked many times an he just doesn't go so this is the best thing todo right now

A leopard doesn't change its spots unfortunately xx

I am 34 plus 3 with my third and just so fed up. I have had a terrible pregnancy from about 21 weeks I have bled on and off and been in and out of hospital due to this and infections. I am still throwing up and can’t get a minutes peace as I have a school age child plus a toddler. I still work too. Baby is currently lying transverse, my placenta is too low and my waters to high. I can’t sleep, can barely eat and am in constant pain. I am due to be sectioned around 38 weeks thank goodness. I have tried told dh no more babies my body has had enough as hadn’t mind.

Sorry I didn't reply yesterday @kkl1 but how are you today?

Hey yer I'm okay thank you I feel abit relieved if I'm honest like I haven't got to deal with it no more I no that sounds awful but I have 2 children and one of the is autistic so now I'm more focused on them and not on of his gonna end up killing him self with the drink and drugs

Thank you for asking

How is ur pregnancy going I have midwife tomor for my 16week appointment so looking forward to hearing the baby's heart beat again

@Fundays12 - that sounds awful. Try to take each day as it comes and handle one hurdle at a time. Have the doctor's given you anything for your sickness?

I had liver function blood tests done in Friday because my itching is so bad, that's all ok. So doc prescribed me antihistamines and some cream. Hoping that will work today. Was in tears yesterday at work!

Work is really hard at the minute too as we are so short staffed. All I want to do is call in sick but I feel guilty.

The rib pain as well. oh my GOD! constant pain in my right ribs. 😭😭 10 weeks to go.

Glad you're feeling better and get to hear little ones heartbeat today! I love hearing my little ones! I'm so ready for this pregnancy to be over though - 3 and a half weeks until my due date so not long but a family member just had their baby so I'm feeling quite jealous 😂

I'm 23 weeks and am so tired and grumpy. I have 2 dcs already aged 5 and 7 and am so intolerant with them plus I'm a teacher but fortunately only work part time as those kids are also irritating me so much. I'm sleeping fine but just want to sleep all the time. I've wondered about my iron levels and midwife said she'll check at my next check up. Maybe it's just my age, I'm 38, I didn't think I was in bad shape but since being pregnant I haven't been very active as in first trimester felt so tired and stopped running or doing any exercise apart from a bit of walking kids to school/walking the dog and yoga once a week. DH also annoying me a lot. And feel really lonely, don't have anyone to hang out with on days off, quite new to the area. Hoping will make some friends once baby is born but at the moment just wishing I had someone to go for coffee with etc.

31+4 today. Twins. Im soo fucking over being pregnant now. Thank fuck im going in at 37weeks. Counting down the days til i get my body back. Constantly sore, sick to death of struggling out of bed several times a night for a wee. Feel like a fucking tramp cos hardly anytime to do hair/make up. Ds who is 5 pissing me off pretty much all the time. Except for today, his school report came in the post and its a glowing report which has made me smile for first time today.

I just want to restttttt! 35 weeks and working up until my 39th week and I am soooo overrr everything. So tired, so swollen, so argumentative, hate everyone, hate everything, bloody hate being a pregnant moose!!

No they did offer to give me something but I am really uncomfortable taking medication generally. I can cope with the sickness as it’s nothinh compared to my second pregnancy when I had hypermesis.

Ohh the rib pain is awful I had that with my first. I ended up getting reiki and he moved which stopped the pain.

Work is the same for me it’s crazy busy but only another 2 weeks to go