Advice please im going insane!

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I have followed mumsnet for at least 7 years now as i have two children ive got this far without ever posting but i seriously need advice...

I sadly suffered a missed miscarriage a few months ago and have been ttc since although my cycles are always irregular im currently on day 34 this cycle i am 11 dpo with a bfn today but ive been feeling really groggy, (im sorry for the info) at night time im seriously snotty, blocked up and sneezing like no tomorrow (i feel rubbish), im tired and been napping around teatime 😩

I just dont no what this is i really want a bfp but maybe after 11 dpo i should take it as not this cycle? Please has anyone any advice could this just be pms??

Thank you

11dpo is still quite early to test, it still is possible to get a positive this month. Good luck

sorry to hear about your missed miscarriage. I have really irregular cycles and always found this in its self frustrating and the more distracted I got the longer they seemed to be.

I always found that I felt similar symptoms to being pregnant before I came on so it may be the case that your due on or maybe ovulation wasn’t 11 days ago and it’s the start of something. Maybe give it a couple of days and test again.

Thank you both, oxeyedaisy my cycles are a joke some months its so hard to know whats happening!