I’m pregnant and I’m terrified

[Imsounprepared]

I can’t stop crying
My partner says we are not ready for a baby and he’s right
But it’s our baby, and I don’t think I could go through with an abortion
Or keeping it
Or adoption
None of my options are good
I’m feeling suicidal like it would be an easy way out

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Please speak to your gp about how you're feeling as there are options and you have time to think about what is best for you.

Please please don't do anything to hurt yourself. You're going to be ok. Xx

@Imsounprepared take a deep breathe lovely. You have many options and you have time to make any decisions you want to make. Just take some time to yourself and let everything sink in, and then start having discussions with your partner.

Imsounprepared it's going to be ok. It sounds like you're in shock and panicking. Just like Nedsxx said, take a deep breath and let it sink in. Remember feelings change. Shock and panic will pass and you won't always feel so terrified. Take some time to adjust. May I ask why you and your partner aren't ready? Is it financial? You might find ways to improve financially over time or find some financial assistance. There are loads of second hand baby stuff and hand me downs. Is it more that you are not emotionally ready? There are ways to prepare, get support to help both of you with that. Or is it a new relationship and you're both unsure whether or not your relationship will last if you have a baby now? Only time will tell and that is also true for couples who have been together for a long time too.