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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

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4 replies

Shevvy94 · 20/05/2019 19:06

Hey,
I’ve literally today just found out I’m pregnant, I already have 2 DC age 5 and 2.
Me and partner broke up two weeks ago and it’s been a complete mess of a break up.
He wants me to keep the baby and I’m confused on what to do. I’m half way through a two year apprenticeship and would be due before it ends.
Obviously being on said apprenticeship not exactly bringing in a lot of money and worry this will be an extra struggle.
I just need some advice, I’ve only told 2 very close friends and they both differ on what I should do.
Any advice would really be appreciated.
Thanks

OP posts:
allergyhelpnewbaby · 20/05/2019 19:10

Ignore what your partner wants, what is your gut instinct?

You already have two children so you know how hard it can be, do you want to be in the position of going through that all again potentially alone?

There is no right or wrong answer here.

Shevvy94 · 20/05/2019 19:18

That my problem. I have no gut instinct. I literally have no idea what to do.
Honestly no I don’t.

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allergyhelpnewbaby · 20/05/2019 20:37

Maybe write a list of pros and cons? If your partner or ex definitely an ex? How long were you together? Why did you split up?

Bambamber · 20/05/2019 20:41

Do you know how far along you are? If it's early days you may have time to take some time to process it all and think rather than try and make a decision straight away if you're not sure

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