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Due date 26th of September 2019

22 replies

SouthYorkshire1995 · 12/05/2019 08:15

Hi i had my period on 15th of December came off on the 20th my period lasted 5 days and I'm irregular I was heavy I had sex with guy 1 on 22nd of December once but had sex with guy 2 on 31st of december and the 1st of January around 5 times my due date is 26th of September who would most likely be the dad the ultrasound person said I conceived in January

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Lola871 · 12/05/2019 08:49

How long are your cycles normally? Do you know when you normally ovulate? Even with this info you can't guarantee it's one or the other, however it might give you an idea of which is more likely.

SouthYorkshire1995 · 12/05/2019 09:18

I'm normally on for 7 days but this time I was on 5days and I don't look into my cycles I just know I'm irregular I'm 20 week and 3 days ultrasound said measurements of start of pregnancy go back to the 20th of December when I wasn't pregnant they said it starts from 20th of December who would you think it is just having a guess

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FirsttimerNI · 12/05/2019 10:41

I’m due 28th September and conceived weekend 4th-6th January. Obviously everyone is very different but best guess especially given what ultrasound person said is guy 2

SouthYorkshire1995 · 12/05/2019 10:58

First timer thankyou for your help so if it was guy 1 would I be further along and how long does it take to concieve I'm so confused with it all I got implantation symptoms on holiday I was due on around the 13th of January or 14th but didn't come on felt ill around the 18th

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CatSmize · 12/05/2019 12:14

I'm due 23rd Sept and conceived somewhere between 26th Dec and 1st Jan based on my fertile window.

Based on the dates the sonographer gave you, I'd also say it's more likely to be guy 2.

However, it is difficult to know without knowing your cycle length (e.g 28 days) because you could have ovulated early and sperm live for 5 days inside a woman. Also, scan dating can sometimes be up to 8 days out so I wouldn't take anything for definite. It could still be either guy (but probably more likely guy 2).

SouthYorkshire1995 · 12/05/2019 12:19

Thankyou and my scans have been accurate 3 of them have been the exact same with the same due date of 26th of September also been told its very unlikely to get pregnant just after your period I think it's more likely guy 2 that's what my instinct is saying

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CatSmize · 12/05/2019 12:34

I hope it's the guy you want it to be! Flowers

SouthYorkshire1995 · 12/05/2019 12:58

Thankyou and how long does it take to concieve roughly after sex please cat

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CatSmize · 12/05/2019 13:04

You can conceive immediately if you have sex in your fertile window. Or if you have sex before you are fertile, the sperm hang around for up to 5 days and then you would conceive if they are still alive when you ovulate.

SouthYorkshire1995 · 12/05/2019 14:13

Oh right so it's most likely guy 2 then cat

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SouthYorkshire1995 · 12/05/2019 14:17

Oh right so it would be most likely guy 2 then cat

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J0nesy · 12/05/2019 14:27

I'm due on 28 September and my conception date based on that is 4 January. I would guess that guy 2 is far more likely to be the father.

ZigZaggyZoo · 12/05/2019 14:28

Same due date as you. I conceived on 2nd or 5th Jan. The only way to be certain though would be a DNA test after baby is born. Good luck!

SouthYorkshire1995 · 12/05/2019 14:43

Thankyou guys really appreciate this

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marinova · 12/05/2019 16:35

I'm due on 26th December too and fairly sure we conceived in the first week of Jan if that helps (as we were visiting his fam end of December with thin walls lol) hope that helps

HerculesMulligan · 12/05/2019 16:43

My LMP was 14 Dec, I conceived on 28/29 Dec and have an EDD of 21 Sept.

SouthYorkshire1995 · 12/05/2019 22:05

So it's basically guy 2 then as sperm only last 5 days and I wouldn't of been ovulating on 25th would I it would be more like 31st I'd of been ovulating by going off what your all saying so it must be guy 2

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SouthYorkshire1995 · 13/05/2019 10:51

Also does it matter that I've tried having a baby with guy 1 before slept with him different times of month for a year and never caught on I sleep with guy 2 in New year and 1st of jan and now I'm pregnant can anyone advise me on this

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Jennylou88 · 13/05/2019 12:41

Just get a DNA test.

Halo84 · 13/05/2019 12:54

When your child is born, I suggest you have guy 2 DNA tested. It’s the fairest to your child to know who is that child’s father.

Halo84 · 13/05/2019 13:46

If your due date is September 26, you conceived around December 20. That’s based on the date you gave as your last menstrual period.

SouthYorkshire1995 · 15/05/2019 23:13

My pregnancy starts from 20th of December and my fetal age is 2 weeks behind I'm technically 4months pregnant ultrasound said I conceived in jan so I'm going to have guy 2 do a DNA test because I believe it's his

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