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Anyone else feeling like a social pariah?

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July2019 · 28/04/2019 21:45

Due July 2019, as the name suggests!

Anyone else not only a FTM but a FTM out of all of their friends?

I am SO lonely I could cry all the time.

Since announcing the pregnancy - which I am absolutely over the moon about - I am no longer invited to anything and feel so forgotten about. "We didn't ask you as you can't drink" is the response - who cares! They do alcohol-free "beer" at my local, but even on a soft drink I still like the atmosphere!

I also feel quite put out that coffee/games nights aren't being taken up on - AIBU to think that my friends should attempt to do something to include me, even if it is coming to my house for tea? I would bend over backwards to include any of them if the tables were turned.

Just so, so lonely. Antenatal classes not starting for another month. Any suggestions?

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faelavie · 28/04/2019 22:03

I feel the same, and I'm only 16 weeks. Also a FTM.

I have certainly discovered who my real friends are since announcing my pregnancy. It's depressing.

July2019 · 28/04/2019 22:17

@faelavie I'm sorry you're in the same boat. Congratulations on your pregnancy though, it's so great apart from our shitty friends, don't you think??

You have the most exciting part to come, when you can feel and see kicks, it's the best thing ever x

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