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LucindaE · 17/04/2019 20:13

I hope everyone suffering from the Horrors of Hyperemesis will find this thread useful as a source of support and information.
There's no TMI on here - can't be by definition - and nobody should feel ashamed of moaning as much as they feel the need to.
MOH's wonderful website is full of useful information on this illness:
sites.google.com/site/pregnancysicknesssos
Another invaluable website is:
www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk
If you need help in obtaining medication, phone them on:
024 7638 2020
Lastly, the NICE guidelines on treatment are useful:
cks.nice.org.uk/nauseavomiting-in-pregnancy
I would like to thank everyone who has given such invaluable support and advice on this and on previous threads.
It has been suggested that I add some practical tooth cleaning advice: a lot of sufferers find using a child's small toothbrush and strawberry toothpaste far less nauseating.
On my image of a pink castle: that is an image I use because when I was little, my family had a Snakes and Ladders board with an image on the last square of a pink castle in the clouds. As Hyperemesis is so like a grotesque version of Snakes and Ladders - eat a meal, go up a ladder, first thing in the morning bile run, down a snake - I have used the image of that pink castle on the last square of that Snakes and Ladders board as a metaphor for the happy end of Hyperemesis.
Remember when you are at your worst, 'This Too Shall Pass'. It really will.
So many women on this thread have thought they couldn't get through this, but they did.

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Blii · 12/06/2019 18:29

Ah congratulations Reastie. Lovely news!

DeadDoorpost · 12/06/2019 18:36

Congratulations Reastie !!

Teddyreddy · 12/06/2019 19:20

Congratulations @Reastie

ElkieMacjibe · 12/06/2019 19:36

Congrats @Reastie! So pleased for you

composed · 12/06/2019 19:41

Massive congratulations to you reastie, so happy it all went well, hope you’re feeling so much better now x

PinkSpring can’t they just do something over the phone instead of you having to go in? Atm my gp’s are signing me off on a monthly basis but I am worried if they decide not to and want me to go in. My mum has also said over the summer hols she’ll be taking me and dd over to hers as fh works long hrs and if she just takes dd then I will be alone as we plan to love back home once school finishes from my sil.

I still have that horrid stuck in throat feeling and a bitter taste in my mouth! ugh when will this all end? Have my midwife app this fri cba with it shes not as good as my first one was.

Hope everyone is having a better day today than yesterday x

HermioneKipper · 12/06/2019 19:58

@Reastie what fantastic news! Hope you’re all doing well and enjoying newborn cuddles!

LucindaE · 12/06/2019 20:49

Reastie Wonderful news. I am so happy for you. Flowers Smile Star. Congratulations on your boy. You have been brillinat on this thread. I hope you are soon back to Brew and Cake
PinkSpring That does sound annoying about the reviews, though I supose good to be seen by the doctor for a check up.

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TwoShades1 · 12/06/2019 22:05

Congrats Reastie!! Hope you’re feeling so much better now!

BlodwynBludd · 12/06/2019 22:18

Huge congratulations! A lovely reminder of why I'm going through this.

cattaxi · 12/06/2019 22:35

Just popped back on to the thread to see how everyone is & seen your lovely news @Reastie 💙 Congratulations & well done. Wishing you a swift recovery from the section & HG.

I’m 22 weeks now and mostly ok. Still having sickness and nausea here and there, but nothing like those early weeks. I’m off all meds & back to my full hours at work. I even went 4whole days without throwing up about a week ago.
We also had our anomaly scan & baby boy looks fine. We still have a cardiac scan to double check, but it’s looking more & more likely that the raised nt wasn’t an indicator of anything in the end.

Thinking of all you lovely ladies who are still suffering. I’ve been one of the lucky ones to get some much better from about 18 weeks. Hopefully that offers some hope to those of you in the early days.

Thanks to all of you who supported me back in feb / March / April. This thread was such a lifeline.

norbert23 · 13/06/2019 03:56

Congratulations @Reastie that's excellent news, I hope you & baby are doing well and you're managing to get a bit of sleep xxx

I've also been quiet on here, mainly due to sleeping as much as possible once I'm home from work & my dd is in bed 😊
I'm almost 30 weeks and I feel much more "normal" now apart from indigestion (not helped by a massive pickled onion & beetroot phase last week) and I finally feel a bit excited and connected with the pregnancy. Sending hugs to everyone who feels terrible xx

ClareDB · 13/06/2019 08:58

Big congratulations @reastie! Hope you're feeling better now.

My OH has had 2 weeks holiday and today is the first day I'm back to looking after my 3 year old on my own all day. I'm scared, he doesn't nap any more, he's quite demanding and it seems like such a long day.

Daisychain456 · 13/06/2019 10:40

Hello ladies, I haven’t posted here before but got a lot of comfort from this thread during some pretty dark weeks! I wanted to just offer some hope to anyone struggling in the early weeks of pregnancy as I am now nearly 17 weeks and noticing some gradual improvement - I know it’s different for everyone but just wanted to let you know it may and can get better than it is right now! My vomiting/nausea started at 4 weeks and escalated pretty quickly, I was really lucky that the first GP I saw was proactive and I started medication early on which I think stopped the vomiting from escalating further, though for me the nausea has been absolutely soul destroying and I was bed bound for days, at times just wishing I would die! I’m still surviving on very bland food and each day is different, so still having some pretty rough days with the nausea but on the whole things are definitely on the up! I know some people struggle right until the end and I don’t think by any means I’ve had a miraculous recovery, particularly as I’m returning to work next week which may trigger things getting worse again! But just wanted to share this in the hope it might help someone - I know in the early weeks I felt like I would never feel better and that I couldn’t do it, now I’m starting to feel like an actual human being and like I might be even excited about the pregnancy at last! Love to all xxx

DeadDoorpost · 13/06/2019 21:04

Today has been pretty rough. Not been sick but stomach has been unsettled. Went and got some drinks I can stomach including lucozade. Managed a nap when DS slept.

LucindaE · 13/06/2019 21:27

DaisyChain456 Welcome. I am so glad that you have been reading the thread and have had a considerable improvement. Thank you so much for an encouraging message for those currently at their worst. What meds were you on? I hope you have a supply just in case as it's always a good idea to be prepared in the event of a bad day - like the boy scouts in a way Grin. Don't push yourself too much at work. As below a good anti acid can always come in handy.
Cataxi That is wonderful news about the anamoly scan being OK. I have been wonderfing how things are. It is so kind of you to clal in with your message of encuuragement about how much better things can get.
norbert I am glad you feel a lot better too. Thank you so much for coming back on to encourage those suffering now. On indigestion: Mother Hen will say her usual, 'Is it acidity? A good anti acid can make a huge difference.'
ClareDB Poor you, I do feel fo r you. Can anyone else help? A friend, or a family members? A lot of sufferers find that they just have to lie down with the LO playing nearby, or watching children's televsion or DVD's or whatever. It must be terribly hard. I found it hard surviving looking after LO when I had a migraine and OH was at work, and those only lasted two days.
DeadDoorPost I hope the Lucozade etc helps.
Apologies to anyone rudely ignored.

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Daisychain456 · 13/06/2019 21:35

Thanks Lucinda - I am still taking the meds as I had a day without them last week and was non stop vomiting so definitely still need them! But they seem to be keeping things under control and things are gradually feeling more manageable - will likely try to slowly cut down in a couple of weeks if all continues to progress. I started on promethezine, moved on to cyclizine, then to Ondansetron- however the Ondansetron seemed to be giving me migraines so I changed back to cyclizine which is no miracle worker but helps! Something I have struggled with and continue to worry about is how being so unwell has impacted upon my relationship with my husband - feel like I have been a bit of an empty shell these past few months and though he’s tried his best it has been hard on us both. Has anyone else experienced this/got any tips on how to manage this? X

Reastie · 14/06/2019 07:39

Wanted to check back in tomsay thank you so much for all the congrats. Sorry I haven’t updated more, things been hectic and I’m just excited not to feel sick any more! It just feels incredible not to need the meds all the time and to be able to do stuff and not have that feeling that everything you do will cause nausea and the constant dread of that alongside the actual awful sickness itself. It rewlly will end and you will survive!

We got home from the hospital yesterday lunch time and so glad to be home. In pain from the swction but tbh that’s easy compared to hg. I was so scared of fasting and not being given anti emetics on arrival at hospital to help comtrol things pre op etc but my lovely consultant actually called the ward when I arrived to make sure it was done straight away so I had ondansetron iv and fluids on arrival. I was first on the list for the day because of that and there was no waiting around after I arrived with all the paperwork etc they went through with me, it was all great. The op itself was a little stressful due to consultant obstetrician and anaesthetist overseeing the op but trainees actually doing it and the anaesthetist trainee I heard her say it was her first day and she did the spinal a bit wrong so it didn’t take properly and they asked me at one point if I wanted a general because it hadn’t quite taken all the way up but I didn’t! Made it quite stressful for me as I was already so nervous but they gave me a sedative to calm me down as soon as baby was born (which was in my plan because of anxiety) and that was good stuff Wink . They also gave me more ondansetron and also stemetil and cyclizine via iv in the op and had them all written up for post op if and when I needed them. Now in bed with baby on my chest sleeping :)

Daisychain sometimes having drugs in combination rather than swapping one for another works better. I’ve heard headaches can be a side effect of ondansetron so that’s a shame if it gives you migraines.

Dead I really hope today is better for you.

Norbert I’m so glad you’re feeling more normal. My last month of pg was definitely my best. I was still deeply miserable and nauseous but it was a different level to the beginning. Hopefully yours will comtinue to improve.

Sorry not to namecheck everyone but just so overwhelmed and tired atm with baby stuff etc. Thank you to everyone on here for your support over the last months. This thread has totally got me through this pg. without the support and knowledge of people onnthis thread I really don’t think I would have got this far. Thanks to this thread I knew what I was entitled to have and ask for drug wise, I got the details of a wonderful nhs consultant in London who took on my case enough to instruct my gp to prescribe my meds that were a lifesaver, I found out about pss who were fabulous source of help and information and I had somewhere in life where I could go and just be understood. Lucinda thank you for running the threads all these years (as I know I popped on a few years ago before ttc as I didn’t know what to do if I could do it again. I remember you said to me you onoy had one and would have had another if you had your time again and my point to trying again was not wanting to live forever with regret wanting another but being too scared to be pg again so your comment rewlly was one that I deeply thought about in helping me decide to ttc again so great thanks to you).

The pink palace exists and is brilliant. I have a shopping order coming this afternoon with ALL THE FOOD I haven’t been able to face for months but really love and am actually want to eat it now! Fresh fruit, yoghurt etc. I rewlly missed it!

beforeIhit30 · 14/06/2019 10:32

That’s wonderful Reastie it’s been a tough road but you’re there now! Having read your posts, as well as others, I feel a lot of empathy for what everyone goes through, so to read you at the end, happy resident of the pink palace, it genuinely makes me smile.

I appear to be very tired, but I am nearly 29 weeks so that’s probably relevant! Overall I’m better than, say, a month or two ago, but it’s sort of swings and roundabouts. Thankfully it rarely gets awful though so my ‘bad’ isn’t usually as bad as before. I have days where I’m very much staying indoors and doing very little, but some days I can do a few bits or pop out which is good. I can also eat more variety, I’ve been having veg and fruit, and some meat, on a more regular basis, which makes me feel better.

Blii · 14/06/2019 18:35

Reastie how wonderful. That made me well up!
Before - I am feeling the same today. Today is a bad day but nowhere near as bad as the early days. I’m grateful for that. I’ve just stayed in all day except school/nursery runs.
Did not sleep too good last night. There was a fox in the garden that sounded like a screaming lady. And then my makeup was falling out my makeup bag and onto the hard bathroom floor one by one, it took me a couple of trips to the bathroom in the middle of the night to figure out what the noise was! So I think that’s why I’m not so good today, not enough sleep.
Hope everyone is getting by ok.

LucindaE · 14/06/2019 19:03

Reastie I am so deligted that you are in the Pink Castle/Pink Palace and I have had it summer cleaned especially for you. I am moved by your message. In a way, I felt quite guilty that it was my own regrets at stopping at one which led you to go for it again, when you suffered so badly, but I was sure you would never regret having two once baby was born. You have been really supportive on this thread despite being ill yourself for much of the time, and I do hope you will call back as often as you possibly can. That sounded alarming about the trainee surgeon and the spinal, but I am so glad all was OK and that you are actually enjoying food. Interesting that you are back home so soon. Star Smile Cake Brew Flowers
beforeihit30 That is good news about eating more healithily. I am so glad the bad times are not as dreadful as they were.
Apologies to anyone rudely overlooked.

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LucindaE · 14/06/2019 19:07

Cross posted and meant to say...
Bili Sorry about bad day. I know what you mean about welling up. I never used to cry much before I became pregnant, and I shed tears easily now. Shock
Dailychain456 As Reastie says, a combination sounds a good idea. Have they tried you with Stemitil? It is unfortunate about Ondansetron giving you migraines. Several people on here have complained of that.

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Reastie · 14/06/2019 20:02

Blii and before I was exactly the same. Things improved after a while so a third trimester bad day would be an improved level to a first trimester bad day but would still be bad compared to most people’s experience iykwim.

Thanks Lucinda. I knew what you meant about regret and I just felt I didn’t want to live forever thinking ‘what if’ if I never tried again, and now it’s all over it’s easy to say I wouldn’t change it etc but hg was awful and an endurance and I’m just glad I’ve got it over with! I’ll try and pop back every now and again as I want to know how everyone on here does as they go on but I probably won’t manage to keep up that well like before. I’ll be thinking of you all and the time left to survive this. It will end, just take every day and hour and minute at a time to get through it. I never ever thought it would come to an end and have essentially not had a life since October.

DeadDoorpost · 14/06/2019 20:20

Today has been hit and miss. Not eaten much, and didn't have much sleep but not felt too ill.

composed · 14/06/2019 20:32

Not been a good day today either for me today, didn’t sleep at all last night coupled with a massive argument with dh which made me more emotional than usual. Had a midwife app today and have been referred to a mh nurse to do a hv as I am struggling a lot atm. Did get to listen to the baby’s hb so that was good, then decided to walk to the local asda which is the most I have done in 3 mths and am beyond exhausted, oh and also have the beginning of pelvic pain.

Daisychain not sure what to say re dp as I’m going through something similar, my
midwife said she would get the mh midwife to speak to him due to him being so against me taking meds, a long running battle which I am finding worsens my mh and general well being.

Before and Blii glad to hear you both are doing better than the early days, Reastie will miss you being on here due to the kind words and support you have provided even in the short time I’ve been on but beyond happy that you came through it x

Lucinda hope you’re well and everyone else too x

BlodwynBludd · 15/06/2019 08:22

Is anyone else dealing with total food aversion? My sickness is down to once or twice a day controlled with ondansetron but all food triggers massive nausea. Just looking at some food makes me throw up. I know I need to eat but I can't. I don't know what to do.