Hi all,
Sorry for posting on wed evening saying I felt terrible and then go awol. Yesterday I went to mw and then had a long telephone call with someone about dd following an educational assessment and it took it out of me and I was just too exhausted to catch up.
Luckily yesterday was better than wed eve. All ok with mw although bp gets lower at every apt, yesterday it was 100/60 I think, and that’s with me fully hydrated, so I’m concerned about csection given it’s likely to be lower than that as I’ll have fasted which is likely to make it lower which can cause issues with the spinal or epidural. Will be discussing it with anaethetist when I see him.
Pumpkin I’ve known several ladies on here having a bad increase in symptoms when they have a UTI, so fingers crossed once the abs kick in you might feel a bit better. What drugs have you tried so far?
Hermione completely sympathise, I felt exactly the same at the same point. It’s the thought of so many weeks ahead and that it might get worse and feeling so terrible and people think it’s just normal. Even with my concoction of drugs I still felt incredibly nauseous and was bed or sofa bound for months. Please just take every minute at a time and have your aim as surviving the day. Getting through one day is something to celebrate and gets you a day closer to the end. Don’t even think about the weeks and months to go, just focus on today and thenext hour. I didn’t leave the house in the first trimester at all from before my period was due (when I was already feeling sick) apart from 2 scans. I had to have my mw booking apt at home as I couldn’t get to the hospital and couldn’t manage my nhs 12 week scan as it meant a trip out too far for what I could cope with so had to pay for a private one which was closer. Even now at 34 weeks I still have pretty much given up on attempting anything except hospital appointments, and even then I have to bring my Mum along for moral support! I know how you feel, please just focus on the day and they can add more medication into your prescription to take at the same time as metcoploride.
Forever that is fabulous news, huge congrats. I bet it feels amazing to not feel sick!
Good to see you back Lucinda. You had great weather for your trip!
Blii hope you feel better today and slept better last night?
Composed I’ve read a lot of ladies can’t manage to shower or bath. Try not to worry too much and just wash when you can. I had months where I would only manage to brush my hair once a week, and that was a good week!
Nouser I have no life either! I’ve actually written a list of ‘things I’m looking forward to doing when I don’t feel sick any more’ and they are often such simple random things like take dd to a playground, go for a walk, go to the shopping centre and have lunch out, have a fantastic festive Christmas (didn’t really get Christmas last year as felt so poorly and was on my own on the sofa feeling sorry for myself most of the day whilst dd and dh visited family). Having that list there and adding to it and knowing in a few months I’ll be able to work my way through it when I want to is such a positive thing for me to focus on (I mean, obv the fact I get a baby is too, but on a daily basis I miss just being me and doing normal stuff).
Dead are you going to put an offer in on the house do you think? One of my favourite time wasting things to do atm is go on right move and nose in people’s houses 
Sunshine same thing as what I’ve already said to you. You’re right in the thick of it right now. Even if you suffer till the end (which I’m likely to,I did last time too) it won’t be as bad as it is right now. Don’t let it scare you that I’m on here complaining with only a few weeks to go. I had literally months where I couldn’t watch tv, read, talk even. I couldn’t even have dd in the same room as me at times as just having her there somehow triggered my nausea. I still feel sick, a lot, and essentially can’t do anything as activity is a big trigger for me so I’m enforced rest, but doing things I know help me (like eating.,,,,constantly) and taking my medication means it’s manageable most of the time. So long as I don’t do anything and eat constantly and take the drugs and rest a lot I can have days where I barely feel sick. It’s such an improvement from where I was. I have random bad days or bad times which might be due to hormone surges or something I’ve done or just because it feels like it, but it’s not constant like it was. Atm most days now I can manage to do dinner for dh and dd (which I couldn’t even think about for months) and some simple chores. I can read books and watch tv most of the time (which I couldn’t before either). So, even if you suffer throughout it won’t be as intense as what you feel right now, there is hope.