Could my boyfriend be secretly gay?

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Very very long story short, me and my OH have been together for two years. We have a one year old boy. He never pesters me for sex, never really looks at other girls and never talks in a sexual way. There’s me thinking this is great that I’m not being pestered for sex.

Also a very long story short, his Instagram is logged in on my phone. He never messages anyone, but I can see who he was been searching and 100% of them have been men who enjoy going to the gym And working out. What has sparked me to write this post is that I noticed he searched a guy who stars in a soap opera we both started watching together the other day.

I’m seriously thinking that he’s gay.

What are your thoughts?

Did you mean to post this on the pregnancy board? Might be better in relationships....

Is there anything else that has brought on this suspicion?

I follow loads of attractive women on Instagram. Because of shared interests. I also look up female celebrities on there sometimes.

I am not gay. Is there something else?

Might not be BUT .. i would be thinking Gay too and it does happen but i guess if he gets erected enough when you have sex then he cant be fully gay right? not sure but i would Maybe have a talk to him ? maybe just mention your a bit worried as it does happen and that you would rather know.

Ask for this to be moved to the relationship forum. If he is keen on getting fit he may be looking for inspiration in those men.

I don't think your examples suggest he is gay.