Im so scared

[Al9619]

I've just found out I'm pregnant and I'm terrified and not a clue what to do. Me and my partner have been together for just over 6 months now but we have had so many arguments and it's made me question if I want to be with him. We're currently living at his mums, and now I've found out I'm pregnant. I've had 3 abortions when I was younger but I'm only 22 right now and I'm so scared to do either. Ive been wanting a child for so long but it just doesn't feel like the right time and I'm scared I won't be able to give them everything. I always pictured it being different to this. I'm terrified about every single aspect of pregnancy and becoming a parent but I can't stand the thought of another abortion. I've not told any of my family or friends yet because I don't think they will be happy for me. I just don't know what to do

Do you know how many weeks you are?

I would book an appointment with your GP to discuss your options.

It doesn't sound like you feel that this is the right time for you, but you can always make it work if you do decide to go ahead with it.

I am not here to lecture you, but I would also suggest you have a serious look at your contraception method if this is your 4th unplanned pregnancy by the age of 22.

Hope you reach a conclusion you're comfortable with, good luck

I've been on the pill after having the implant.
I've rang my gp but they said they will book me in in a few weeks.

Thanks for the advice :)

This thread should probably be moved to pregnancy choices.

However, you need to do what's right for you. Not anyone else. Don't let anyone influence any decision you make. It always ends up in regret.