I've been told by friends that I should write a birth plan even though I am having an elective c-section (my second). So I had a look at the template on the NCT website and as I read through the long list of requirements, I couldn't help but feel that it was a) A bit OTT for me personally and may possibly just irritate my carers? and b) Would just on the whole be ignored.
What are people's experiences of this?
I didn't make one the first time and the hospital staff were amazing regarding offering skin to skin, photos, immediate breastfeeding etc. Was that a fluke?