Scared about a MC. Warning may be graphic.

[22dad2be]

Warning may be graphic.

Last night me and my girlfriend had sex, after we noticed blood on my penis. She panicked and I quickly googled to try and find something to make her feel better. I found that it could be burst blood vessels of the tender cervix that caused blood to come out. It wasnt flowing out, it just coated my penis.

This morning she comes back from the toilet really upset, she's bleeding again and is having minor cramping. I tell her to call the doctor but she refuses, instead texting her dad saying the baby is gone. I still have hope as I've read some stories of women even passing blood and tissue and having a healthy baby. I tried to talk to her dad and get him to make an appointment for her (
I don't know who her Dr is) but he refuses, says he has had 5 kids and knows its a phantom pregnancy... I'm not convinced.

I told her to take a test on Saturday, 2 days from now and if that comes back positive to book in with the doctor to get a hcg test. She reluctantly agreed obviously not wanting to get her hopes up but I can't just lay down and accept this has happened. And it just seems weird that no one in her family wants her to see a doctor.

Advice anyone please? I can't physically drag her to a doctor I don't know what to do

Adding some more reassurance your way; I’ve read a lot about women having some bleeding post sex and it’s nearly always come back as being cervix related. Secondly, I had 2 episodes of bright red bleeding around 6/7 weeks (currently 13 weeks with twins) which freaked me out but, when I put my big girl pants on and thought about whether I had done anything that could have caused it, I realised both episodes came within 4-5 hours of opening my bowels (sorry for TMI) and I was constipated at the time. All is progressing well at the moment and babies seem to be behaving themselves!!

Good luck for the appointment on tuesday - and, if my DH gave me flowers and donuts at the moment, I’d be over the moon!!

Sorry OP I've just seen your post to me. Yes I had crampings too. My daughter is 20 now so it all came good in the end.

Hcg test in 2 days, getting less and less optimistic. Girlfriend is having period like bleeding every day since my last post with lots of clots but unsure if they're tissue or blood. Either way it's worse than I described last time. However we are still going to go just to get closure

So sorry to hear this OP.