Positive Test but on Mini Pill

[Emilym91]

Hi all!
So today I got a positive test result, and I’m really panicking!
I’m on the mini pill, and I have a 5 year old & a 1 year old...no more children were planned (hence the pill)!
My other half wants me to have an abortion, and I never planned for 3 kids, but I’m not sure how I’m feeling. We have had a miscarriage in the past before having our 1 year old so I’m nervous of that too.

I just want to hear some advice etc as I’m really stressed now!

I found out last year that I was pregnant despite being on the pill too.

It's natural to have lots of mixed feeling when the pregnancy isn't planned and you're in shock.

I literally freaked out and changed my mind about 50 times... I was so shocked and confused.

I decided to go ahead with my pregnancy as I've always had the idea of another child in the back of my mind and didn't want to have any regrets.

My only advise to you would be to not pressure yourself or your OH. Let the news sink in and give both yourselves time to digest what has happened. Hopefully then, you will both have clearer minds on what you want.

Good luck :)