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CharlieAnn1 · 03/02/2019 01:24

Hi everyone, I'm very new to all of this so you'll have to bare with me.
I have recently found out I am pregnant.. I'm 21, just moved in with my fiance, in the process of training for my dream job (tig welder) and honestly can't afford a baby! My partner and I really have no clue what to do but both believe that it isn't the right time due to how busy our lives are right now.
I was hoping to get some advice from anyone who has been or is in the same situation, it would be massively appreciated!!

Thankyou in advance xx

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
physicskate · 03/02/2019 08:11

If you both think you couldn't provide a baby with the appropriate care and resources, speak to your gp. There are options!!

Mrsmummy90 · 03/02/2019 09:33

It sounds like you've already made your mind up. Talk to your dp and gp about your options and choose what's right for you.

Wedgiecar58 · 03/02/2019 09:58

If you are pregnant and do not wish to be, this can be quite easily and quickly resolved. Make an appt with your GP and they’ll guide you through the options, and refer to the appropriate place for the option you decide on.

Don’t worry OP. I’ve been in your position before (long time ago) and it can be sorted out. X

Melamine · 03/02/2019 10:28

Remember OP that you have 20+ years left to have a baby, so if it’s the wrong time right now, you don’t need to worry or feel guilty. But do talk to your fiancé and GP about all the outcomes & options. Good luck x

CharlieAnn1 · 03/02/2019 10:47

Thankyou all for your advice and support, I really appreciate it and it is all helping xx

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