So worried about a wrong scan

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I got told at 18 I can't have children naturally im 33 now I started getting all pregnancy symptoms, I took a clear blue test it said pregnant 3+ 2 days later I went hospital because b4 I knew I was pregnant I fell over then I started spot bleeding, they brought me in for an early scan and when they scanned me they said they can't see nothing it must be in my tubes they wanted to admit me there and then and operate on me, but the worst thing is I only have 1 fallopian tube which they want to take away just incase it's in the tube because they can't see nothing and im am not in any pain at all I worked it out im only 4 to 5 weeks pregnant only someone please give me advice on what to do im so scared I don't want to take away my only chance on conceiving naturally because if I have to have IVF the NHS you can get 1 free go if this didn't work I would never be able to afford it again

So did they actually diagnose it as a tubal pregnancy or not? You said they said it 'must be'. What did they say about your HCG levels? Were there signs of rupture?

I really don't think asking random people on here is the best in your situation. You need to speak to your obstetrician and explain your concerns and say that you don't want surgery unless they know for sure that it's ectopic.

Ask for a second opinion, they thought mine was totally in the tube but at the 8 week scan they could see a line from the sac going to where it was attached to the uturus lining which meant that I could cramp it out via abortion pills.

No they said because they can't see it anywhere else it must be in my tube but I have no pain at all also they said they can see a cyst on my right tube I don't have a right tube so there lying

Also my hcg is 5400