Just had to post before I explode in RL, I am fed up of everyone throwing in their 2 cents. I have had numerous different comments mainly from friends (some not even close) - its bad luck to decorate babies room, bad luck to buy stuff, bad luck to have your baby shower then. I just feel like telling everyone to fuck off and worry about their own lives, it got even worse when MIL told family & extended family 'the name' of baby THAT WASN'T A NAME WE HAD EVEN DISCUSSED (she had just decided in her head that's what we are calling him). Hormones are all over the place, everyone is aggravating, I need a vodka.