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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Pregnant and unsure what to do?

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Natz110 · 06/12/2018 17:34

Long story short, I am around 4 weeks pregnant (still very early) my boyfriend is devestated, he’s only 23 and seems to think his life is over which hurts me. My initial feeling was I want this baby, but I can’t help but feel guilty that he doesn’t want it. Through anger he told me if I done this we couldn’t be together cause he couldn’t trust me, but I keep thinking if I decide not to go through with it we could end anyway and if I do go through with it he will hate me and take nothing to do with the baby. On the other hand it is so early and I worry I choose to have the baby and he leaves then god forbid something happens ie miscarriage and then I’m left with nothing. (I know I’m probably over thinking but I’m just so confused and scared) has anyone been in this situation before and there partner was so so against it ?

I’m also panicking because I’m getting extremely sore cramps like menstrual cramps that last most or the day, bloated and a lot of wind which makes my tummy sore, also I had very sore boobs and there starting not to hurt as much now so I’m panicking in case it’s a sign of miscarriage????

OP posts:
ClarabellaCTL · 06/12/2018 18:54

How old are you OP? You say he is only 23, are you a bit older? Did you plan the pregnancy?

With regard to the pain, I got terrible cramps to begin with both times I've been pregnant. It was so bad every time I went to the toilet I expected to see blood but both times my babies were fine.

It's early days, your DP might just need some time to get used to the idea.

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