Should we find out?

[Pixi17]

20 week scan next week and undecided whether to find out if we're expecting a girl or boy! This is our first. What did you do and why? Any advice please?

We decided to find out in the end - thank you all for your advice. It's a boy!

I found out with my first and loved knowing. Today I had a scan (new hospital) and asked if I could find out and they said their policy was not to tell anyone! I was gutted to be honest. Knowing was great; really helped me feel more bonded.