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4 weeks pregnant - self referral to hospital

8 replies

LunaBiz · 29/11/2018 20:34

Hello,
I found out a few days ago that I’m pregnant with my first child. It’s very exciting but also very confusing! I called my doctors who said they don’t need to see me, just to self refer to the hospital. It can take 14 working days until I receive a letter with an appointment. Is this a normal amount of time before seeing someone?
I just feel a bit lost and confused!

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piglet81 · 29/11/2018 20:37

Congratulations! It's a bit of a waiting game to start. You'll probably have a booking appointment with a midwife around 8-10 weeks, and a scan around 12 weeks. In the meantime, take folic acid and vitamin d if you're not already, and read the NHS guidance for foods to avoid etc.

SpottingTheZebras · 29/11/2018 20:37

It’s been usual in all of my pregnancies for the first appointment to be at eight weeks and to be with the midwife. Then there is a scan at 12 weeks and appointments pick up speed after that.

LunaBiz · 29/11/2018 20:41

Thank you both! It’s a funny thing really, only my husband and I know. I really want to talk to my mum about it but we’ve decided to wait until Christmas. It’s so exciting but a bit lonely at the same time xx

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mumbojumb · 29/11/2018 20:41

Congratulations!
Usually nothing happens until your around 8/9 weeks pregnant, it's a waiting game until then, you'll see the midwife and then have a scan around 12 weeks pregnant

SoyDora · 29/11/2018 20:41

Yes, I first saw someone at 9/10 weeks with all of mine.
Congratulations!

LunaBiz · 29/11/2018 21:41

Thank you all! Knowing when to expect an appointment has helped a lot. X

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Beckyboo123 · 29/11/2018 21:57

Congratulations!!! I’ve just found out I’m pregnant with my second. We both agreed to just tell our parents, I am very close to my mum I know I will need her support at some point an I see her so much I couldn’t hide it from her xxx

Beckyboo123 · 29/11/2018 22:00

Sorry just realised I didn’t answer your question at all. I called my doctors an they made me an appointment for about a weeks time for me x

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