Advice wanted please

[Mumwife16716]

Hi all! My first time posting and only just actually set up my page! We're looking for some advice along the subject of surrogacy.. We already have children that yes, we are very proud of, and are very grateful for being blessed with. The thing is though, we are desperate to extend our family with one more bubba! We have tried for almost 2 years with no luck with conceiving naturally! It's almost as if our chances have stopped.. so we've been looking into the likes of another woman carrying a baby for us, more than likely with her own egg and my husband's sperm. Some advice, help, guidance from anyone would be greatly appreciated and id also appreciate it if we didn't receive any negative feedback! (This took a lot of courage lol) thanks in advance x 

I believe there is a surrogacy board on here which may be a safer place for this discussion? If you're in the U.K. it's very hard to do. If not you'll likely need a lot of money

Ps I'd probably consider IVF first unless you are repeatedly getting pregnant and miscarrying?

I'd repost on the surrogacy board. These threads often get a bit heated, as the original poster is often someone working for an overseas surrogacy agency which exploit and abuse vulnerable and impoverished women from Eastern Europe (not saying you are, just that we get a lot of those on here).

On that note, please, please do not consider using one of those clinics. They are legal, they are cheaper than surrogacy in the US or UK but they do exploit vulnerable women and I don't think I could ever explain to my child where they came from knowing that.

Haven't you posted this before on a different board? Awfully familiar...