I have recently discovered I'm pregnant with DC2. Prior to having DC1 (now 19 months), I suffered recurrent miscarriages. In two of my losses, nothing actually developed (or was seen on the scan), and in my third there was an abnormality. All were lost at the 9 week mark.
I keep hearing things from people like 'oh, now your body knows what to do' yadda yadda.
I suppose I'm wondering how true that is. I am dreading having a miscarriage as I didn't deal with them very well physically, had to have two rounds of emergency surgery due to blood loss. I really just want it to be OK but I suppose the added pressure of having my DC1 to look after makes me worry more about it all.
Any words of wisdom welcome.