Terrified I'm going to miscarry :( please help!?

[princessbala]

Hi ladies,

Thank you so much for reading.... so I have had a devastating chemical pregnancy 2 months ago, and I have discovered I was pregnant a few days ago (about 4 weeks) I have had symptoms like aversions to certain smells, tiredness and sore boobs and brown discharge, what I think may have been implantation bleeding as that lasted only a few days and has gone now, I also have raised bumps on my areoles.... what I'm worried about is, today I have woken up and my symptoms seems to all be gone... especially breast swelling has gone down to nothing... and only sore if I really prod them :( do you think there's a chance that I'm going to misscarry? Also my cervix is still hard pretty low and open :(

Please reply, I'm
Going out of my mind... thankyou very much xx

Take a deep breath love, symptoms come and go and for the first few weeks you can feel different every day and still be fine

Sorry for your losses, I sympathise so much, it’s a shite exhausting rollercoaster. But your bfp is good news, you’ve had strong symptoms, I’m sure they’ll come back.

It’s enough to drive anyone a bit nutty, I’ve been there and I really feel for you. Take it a day at a time, keep as busy and distracted as you can and I’m sure your symptoms will come back x

Try to relax, I know it's easy to say but worrying isn't going to help- you sound very tense.
How do you know your cervix is low??

I'm 6 and a half weeks pregnant and my only symptoms are no period and feeling tired. I was exactly the same when pregnant with my now 2 year old son. Whilst I too often worry about miscarriage (as I've had an MMC this year at 11 weeks), I know that symptoms or lack of do not mean very much. Although don't get me wrong I would be reassured if I was running to the bathroom vomiting a couple of times a day - but I'm pretty sure the novelty of that reassurance would wear off quite quickly. I hope you manage to see through the anxiety.

How many weeks are you?

At around 6-7 weeks I woke up and literally didn't feel pregnant anymore. My bloating had even gone down! I have had bleeding throughout this pregnancy so I obviously assumed the worse, however every scan I have been to (sometimes 3 per week) baby is still in there happy and healthy wiggling away. I'm only 9 weeks now now but I honestly couldn't feel less pregnant, some women are lucky I guess and I'm one of them!

I never had symptoms with my last two either.
The brown discharge I have had in every pregnancy too including this one, it's so common.

I know it's so hard to reassure yourself that everything is going okay after losing a baby, I lost my twins last year and everyday I ask myself if something is wrong or just expecting it to on the next scan. I think these little growing babies love our positivity so try and think that every pregnancy is different :) xx