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So confused

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Joejoe36 · 09/09/2018 22:38

Hi, I’m 41 and 2 days ago found out I’m
Pregnant, 5 weeks. If you had asked me about this a week ago I would have said there was no way I was having a baby. My eldest is 22, then 13 and 7.
I’m in complete shock as I am on the pill.
DH is adamant we can’t keep it as we have worked hard to get where we are and be able to enjoy our time together as the kids get older.
We are also exhausted!
I just can’t agree that easily. Im completely confused and have no idea what to do. I see his reasoning and a week ago I was saying the same ( before I knew I was pregnant). Now, I’m not so sure.

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Sandstormbrewing · 10/09/2018 13:25

You can only do what you will be able to live with. Whilst I can understand your perspective a week ago, it's different once you are actually pregnant! You do have some time to consider your options, maybe talk again once you are over the shock a bit.

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