Am I in the wrong?

[MissMoodyMoo]

I literally have been so ill with sickness and nausea for the last 12 weeks and I'm not well today and just don't feel like dressing up and going to my partners ex co workers wedding tonight! I've never met the couple and my partner hasn't seen or spoke to the groom in a few years 😐 the invitation was completely out of the blue and even he thought it was weird that we got one! Am I being selfish? I'm working at 7am tomorrow and am exhausted anyway! Apparently I'm ruining everyone's plans as he was already volunteered me to drive a few of his friends 🤨🤨🤨 I'm hormonal and crabbit

Can't he drive himself and his friends?!

No, you’re not. I’m assuming you didn’t agree in advance to being a taxi driver and promise lifts to these friends in advance? Even if you did, you not feeling well is good enough reason to cancel. As pp said, can your DP not go alone and book an actual taxi to bring everyone home if he’s that fussed?

Fuck that!!!!!! Stay at home with your feet up. It's selfish and unfair of him to volunteer you as designated driver because you are carrying HIS child, especially as you have work at 7am tomorrow!!

Tell him to grow a pair and take responsibility for himself. Surely if you are dropping people home they could all chip in for a cab?

Why can't he drive them?

You're not ruining any ones plans, there are these magical things called taxis - they'll transport them all for a fee
Could you drop them off as a compromise? I feel your pain, I had a couple of weddings during my last pregnancy where I felt crap. It's even less fun when everyone around you is battered and you're stone cold sober.

So he wants you to go to a strangers wedding when you feel sick and tired and will probably spend the night sitting in a corner feeling miserable while everyone around you gets drunk and has a good time, just so him and his mates dont have to put their hands in their pockets and pay for a taxi?!

And he thinks your selfish???

Id tell him to f**k off op.

Popped a dress on and curled my hair went to the wedding and ate from the buffet and was home for half 10!! I think once he realised I was really not feeling well daddy mode kicked in and he was happy to leave early leaving his friends at the wedding with other friends! So a win for the both of us I'm snuggled up in bed with a full belly 😂