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Advice needed please :'( pregnancy announcement gone wrong

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katiecakes123 · 13/08/2018 09:37

Hey everyone.... Any advice on this would be absolutely wonderful.
I found out I was pregnant 12 weeks ago which is lovely. I work at a lovely 4* hotel in a beautiful city as a receptionist. Throughout the last year working here there have been a few issues and terrible management. I told two close colleagues the news in confidence. Unfortunately whilst I was on holiday it seems like the whole establishment knows including different departments and someone in fact told my boss and my manager ' because they were worried ?! '
I'm utterly hurt and upset. I wanted to be the one to break MY news to my colleagues, my manager, my boss so on.
Colleague Mentioned to boss how hurt I was that he found out this way. Apparently he just shrugged and said it was for the best at least he can do the risk assessment earlier whilst I'm on holiday. What should I do? I'm so furious with everything and I go back to work in 3 days!
Many thanks x

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53rdWay · 13/08/2018 09:44

Surely he’d need you there to do the risk assessment?

There’s not really much you can do now that everyone knows, but if you know which colleague it was that blabbed you can take them aside when you’re back and ask why they did that when you told them in confidence. And don’t trust them with anything confidential in future. Some people just can’t resist gossiping.

Dermymc · 13/08/2018 09:48

Tbh I wouldn't have told anyone at work but you can't undo that now.

Just speak to your boss when you get back in to work.

troodiedoo · 13/08/2018 09:52

Oh you poor thing. Sure you're not the first to make this mistake. Try and keep calm. See your boss when you go back, unless you can speak to him sooner?

Good luck and congratulations Flowers

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