4 weeks after miscarriage

[Stilltryingat36]

Hi

I'm 4 weeks post mc waiting for af.

Can't stop thinking about everything and wondering if I'll get pregnant again, then worrying what I'll do if I do!

Anyone else in similar boat?
I feel like my mc was so different from any I've read about I only bled for a day but had weird spotting since.

This is my first mc but I have a 14 yr old and I conceived really quick with her no problems maybe is just cos I'm old now or Fate telling me no :(

@Karigan198 did af show? X

Hi op

I would definitely do a test and see if it's still positive or not. I was having scans and blood tests in the first two weeks of my mc and then I buried my head and hoped it would all go away on it's own. 8 weeks later I took a test that was STILL positive and when they rescanned me I had a retained placenta still growing and my Lining was 43mm thick. I was told if I had left it any longer I was definitely heading towards infection.
I know you don't want to wait two cycles and some people can fall without complications but in my own experience I would listen to the nurse. We lost a baby in January after choosing to end pregnancy from defects. I fell after 1 cycle and had a mc and then I fell with no cycle and mc again. My body just wasn't ready and I wish now I'd waited as I may not have lost a further two babies so close

I had a missed miscarriage 4.7.18 at 5weeks passed everything naturally, all my levels went back down to negative and 3 days ago I found out that I am now pregnant again (i haven’t had another period) Terrified that it will happen again but hopeful that it will work out okay this time. Fx for all you ladies trying! Xx

@Keeleyjoexx OMG me too! Missed mc passed everything 5.7.18 fairly sure I ovulated 15.7.18 tested last week and got positive 😬 having a viability scan on Monday bc it might b molar or ectopic I dunno not getting my hopes up yet xx

Can I ask your advice? My flo app once I put my bleeding days in as period told me when I ovulated which was yesterday. I used flo before only that and got pregnant last month on it.
So I DTD Friday Sunday and Ovulation day. Think I stand a chance?? X

I did also have CM and ovulation pain relating to this!

@Delilah7 I had ++ ovulation on 14.7.18 dtd
15.7.18 + ovulation dtd
16.7.18 - ovulation but dtd anyway following sperm meets egg plan advice. Sperm can live up to 5 days in good condition but I'd say if u did it before and/or around ov u stand a good chance x

@Stilltryingat36 was this after your miscarriage? X

@Delilah7 yes I've not bled since miscarriage pregnant now fingers crossed it's in the right place n stuff x

@Stilltryingat36 problem is my miscarriage bleed stopped 6th August so lasted 6 day's. We then had sex 10th 12th 14th and 15th.... I had what felt like ovulation pains and defo CM around the first dates of those days. Now I'm wondering whether these are period pains as based on my cycle before I'd be due on the 21st, which also means if I didn't have my miscarriage my ovulation date would of been the 7th so I think I'm out. 😔 hope that's not too confusing lol. X

@Delilah7 what was the first date you bled? I'd go from there but it depends how regular u were before and how far along u were.
I measured 8+5 I only bled one day and I was bang on regular before so I kinda expected to get af 2.8.18 did positive test on 7.8.18. Everyone's different after mc though I read it can be 7-9 weeks before af returns.
Try not to over think (easy to say) but u will drive yourself mad. I'm proper trying not to get excited or too anxious. Only way you will know is take a test after you'd b due on. X

@Stilltryingat36 I bled 1st August till 6th and I'm normally 28 day cycle regular as clockwork! Xx

Well then u might have got it, my cycles regular too 28-29 days always and I think I ovulated cd11 if you are similar you may have ovulated 11-15 aug x

@Stilltryingat36 and we defo DTD in those days! Xx

@Delilah7 -any news xx

It was a negative Hun :( xx

@Delilah7 did u get ur period yet? X

@Stilltryingat36 yes Hun was awful. Now cd13 and still not ovulated!!!! Xx