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Pregnancy after vasectomy!

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claireabc123 · 25/07/2018 05:17

YES you can get pregnant after your other half has had a vasectomy. My husband had it done around 5 years ago and iv just found out I'm pregnant! Yes it is his ( I know I'll get the jokes) it has come as more than a shock and iv not stopped crying since finding out. He obviously went for it doing for a reason so we never expected to be in this position. He has a telephone consultation later with the doctor I presume followed by more appointments to try and find out how this has happened. My heads all over the place at the minute as I can't believe it's happened to us. Has anyone else found themselves in the same situation? X

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PatheticNurse · 25/07/2018 05:28

Unfortunately l have heard of this. So sorry OP. What are you going to do?

peodar · 25/07/2018 05:29

Not personal experience but someone very close to me chose to abort after a failed sterilisation. You did everything you could to prevent this pregnancy and should feel no guilt

Canwejustrelaxnow · 25/07/2018 05:29

Did he have the follow up tests after his op? Was he given the all clear?

ThinkOfAWittyNameLater · 25/07/2018 07:32

Unfortunately, this possibility is included in all the leaflets and post-op advice. It's also why I had myself sterilised after my husband had his vasectomy.

Take some time to talk through what you both want to do next - consider all ideas without judgement. Hopefully you can see a way forward.

claireabc123 · 25/07/2018 21:41

We've been to the doctors today and they are sending him for 're testing, He had the all clear 5 years ago so it's still a huge shock. We are talking openly and leaning towards going ahead with the pregnancy. Thank you for your comments. X

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ThinkOfAWittyNameLater · 26/07/2018 14:46

That's a great update - I've been thinking about you.

Best luck for the future x

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