Help! Something weird is going on!

[ILoveVince]

Hi all :)

Me and my DH are TTC my #2, his #1. I am 35, he is 28. My DS will be 17 in September.

I have been tracking AF on an app and can tell from my CM when I OV so last month we did it once on OV day.
During the 2WW I had all sorts of symptoms, cramping, pin prick feelings, stabbing pains in places I don’t usually get them, I was sick twice after eating, had nausea, extreme tiredness, headaches, sore bbs and nipples, frequent urination, a painful pulling feeling down below, little pains in or near my bladder, pains on one side (that happened when I was PG with my son), heightened sense of smell, weird lightheadedness even when sitting. There are probably more but I forget.

Af was due on Monday 21st may but on the 20th I started spotting and I did so for 5 days.
My periods are always super heavy and even more painful, they debilitate me every single month. I soak through ultra tampons in an hour or less. But this last ‘period’ or whatever it was, was so light I didn’t need to even use a tampon and there was no pain at all!!

Anyway, now I am 2 weeks late but still getting BFN. (though after a few hours a couple of the tests show up with a faint line?!?)

I figured I’m not PG so we tried again this month and DTD 4 times last week.

Fast forward to just now when I went to the loo and I had very odd light yellow thick stringy CM when wiping and after a good old google it seems this would be normal if I was 6-7 weeks PG as it’s the build up of the mucus plug.

So why am I still getting BFN?! Crazy!!

I have a tesco test to do tomorrow morning but I don’t hold out much hope!

Does anyone have any ideas? Has this happened to anyone else and they’ve ended up getting a BFP?

Can anyone help? X

I'd go to the doctors see if they can do a blood test x

I had this, it was only at 7 weeks pg that I finally got a bfp. Definitely sounds positive so congratulations!

Thanks all :) I can’t get a drs appt for 2 weeks where I live! :(
Still no bfp but feeling mild nausea each day, and waking up at 4-5 o’clock every morning. Thankfully I don’t work so I can go back to sleep but I then sleep til 12-1 pm!!!!
Think I’m going to wait until next af due and test then if it doesn’t come. Frustrating!!

So it’s now been 6 weeks and 4 days since my last proper af.
Over the last week or so I’ve been weeing a lot, and needing to wee straight after I’ve been. It’s not a uti, I know what they feel like. I’ve been so so tired all the time and feeling nauseous most of the day. Haven’t been sick but feel very close to it.
Lots of little niggly pains in my uterus, sharp pin prick pains, deeper pains when I cough or move suddenly. My boobs are sore and my nipples sorer!
Got the shopping coming tonight and have ordered a couple of clear blue tests and saved some fmu from this morning although I wee so often and at night I’m not sure it’s strong enough.
Next af due in 5 days so if a bfn today I’ll wait to see what happens on the 15th.
I just want to know!!

It’s now 7 weeks and 3 days since my last proper AF.
Af was due on 15th June (yesterday) and on the 14th I started cramping and had some very dark brown blood when I wiped. I figured this was af and stuck in a tampon. But there’s only teeny tiny bits of blood showing, so little that if I didn’t use a tampon it would only show when I wiped. Today I’ve not bled at all but I am having cramping, but it’s never as painful as my usual af ones.
Nausea has gone but I’m definitely off my food... I know I’m hungry and need to eat but nothing is jumping out at me. I don’t actually want to eat. DH made me a JP with beans and cheese and I ate it but didn’t really want it!
I’m very shaky and my muscles are weak. I went through this last year and was diagnosed with severe anemia. I’m not on iron tablets for life and I’ve been feeling fine, until this last week or so.
I am a vegetarian so I make sure I have iron and b12 supplements.
I poas this morning but BFN.
Where is my period or where is my BFP!!

Af has been regular and on time since I had my son 17 years ago!

*now on iron tablets

Have you booked a drs appointment?

Yes I’ve got one on the 27th.
I’m just wondering if anyone else has been through this and what the outcome was!

I've had this, it was the second cycle TTC, no period arrived just light spotting for two days Bfn, I wasn't pregnant my body was just being a cruel sod and I just didn't have a period that month (had never missed one in my life up to that point) I was gutted, sorry it might be that, hope it's not though x

Aren’t our bodies weird things!!
You said it was your 2nd month TTC, did it happen for just that one month?
This is my 2nd af month that this has happened.
We did dtd 4 times over the last ovulation which would make me 17dpo if I’m going from the last period which was hardly a period at all!
I’m beginning to think maybe the first weird period was just an anomaly and that perhaps I’m preg from the last ovulation!!
Will test again in a few days :)

It was the only time I skipped a period however after that I started to have dark brown spotting as early as 7 days before AF was due, it was like oh you're TTC well let's mess with your head every month, long story short I got pregnant even with the funny bleeds, I hadn't realised this was your second time with late AF, probably GP visit time but yes womens bodies are amazing but cruel buggers as well!

I had this with very very faint lines appearing at first after test time and awol period but symptoms and spotting. It was a chemical pregnancy and two months worth of period arrived after time. I got pregnant straight after though (his five days old now ) so don’t worry if this is what yours turns out to be. Good luck, OP x

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