13 weeks and he left

[Cherry0183]

So I’m 13 weeks pregnant my ex walked out a few weeks ago saying he can’t cope I think he has underlying mental health issues he turned up last week drink clearly not having showered in days crying saying he can’t cope with life and doesn’t want to feel like this anymore.
He won’t get help won’t come home asked me today if he could pick up his stuff as he feels we can’t work things out. I’m now left alone stressed worried about him us me the baby what do I do now I’m so lonely and worried .

Oh that’s terrible for you both! He sounds depressed, it’s a horrible desperate feeling. And I imagine you feel lost and helpless as well.

I would call MIND and see how you can help.

And know this - this isn’t because of you. He hasn’t left because of you, he isn’t coping with life in general. Depression is a bitch.
Don’t think that this is forever, just take one day at at a time and speak to someone who is professional.

So sorry that you are going through this op but echo exactly what @MalcomPowder has said above.

@cherry0183 - i am so sorry to hear this, you must be feeling and thinking a thousand things. I hope it all works out and that you find a way for you and your baby to be happy. Things will get better.

Thanks I feel like I’m just going through the motions of life I really don’t no what to do with myself I’m just hanging on to hope that he will get better and come back .

so sorry to hear this, must be so tough, ESPECIALLY when you're pregnant :-( defo get some advice from MIND, I got help from them about another family member... MIND were absolutely brilliant.