Waiting to go to GP for scan referral to confirm miscarriage

[foreverclockwatching]

This will be my third since Christmas if confirmed ( have had light bleeding for last week, now with backache, pelvic pain and loss of nausea so sure it will be). Do already have a wonderdul DD whom I adore so feel bad complaining. But this sucks and I feel like shit. Just sat on the sofa whilst she naps googling things I shouldn't. Not sure what I'm posting for really but need to get it off my chest.

Didn't want to read and run. Hope all goes in a positive way sending hugs x

Hi @foreverclockwatching, I am in the same boat. Though this is/was my first pregnancy, I think I'm just 6 weeks and we conceived quickly after contraception so I know I've had an easier ride than a lot of people, and I'm so sorry that this may be your third.

Brown spotting yesterday, fainter tests, and heavy bleeding with clots and cramps this morning. I woke up after dreaming I'd lost it and just knew. I am going for a scan at the EPU tomorrow, it could be a chemical I suppose as I could be less far along that I thought. But still feel quite devastated.

Not sure why I'm posting either, maybe just to be company in this lonely and sad state.

Hi @pearcrumble i hope you had better news than i did. I am only measuring 6w but certain of my dates which should be nine weeks. It is all still there so now have to wait for it to start! It is lonely and sad. and for you.

Hi @foreverclockwatching, I'm sorry to hear that you're in that horrible limbo. I didn't get good news, I had a negative urine test so no scan in the end, I was probably two weeks less far than I thought. Which in some ways is a blessing, because it has been relatively quick miscarriage, in other ways is strangely sadder because I feel like my level of sadness is so disproportionate to what I actually lost.

I hope that this painful time passes for you soon