10+3 Symptoms dropped off - call midwife?

[MrsFTigalar]

Morning, as the title says I'm 10+3 and in the last 24 hours my symptoms have just vanished, no nausea, no vomitting, boobs don't hurt. I've got 3 weeks until my scan date and rationally I know I just need to sit it out.

But this pg is following 3 miscarriages, and I'm terrified, just so anxious. I know no one can do anything, but would they consider me a time waster/ crazy if I called the midwife?

Hi. I know that feeling of anxiety very well! I had 2 MMC and 3 MC. However, my symptoms usually dropped off around 10 weeks because the placenta starts taking over around then.

Is there any way you can get a private scan just to reassure yourself? X

Sorry, if it wasn't clear, I also have 4 healthy children in between those miscarriages

I am literally exactly the same! Same dates, same lack of symptoms out of nowhere... its SO daunting.

We just have to trust that everything is working as it should be, remain as calm as possible and understand our bodies are going through a huge change.

There's nothing that can be done about it and for our own sakes keeping calm is the priority.

I've trawlled these boards looking at responses to similar situations and 9/10 everything ends up fine... fingers crossed for you. ❤️

Mine disappeared at 10 weeks OP don't panic. The placenta is taking over so your symptoms tail off. I'm now 14 weeks and all is well.

I came on to say don't worry and it's normal and there's nothing midwife can do, BUT on the basis you have already had 3 mcs I'm surprised you haven't been already been offered an early scan so in your situation I think there may be some value in ringing the midwife and seeing if that is possible.

The rest of what I was originally going to say though is true, symptoms do come and go so try not to worry too much.