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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

i know this is clutching at straws but ever been pg with no real symtoms?

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ShesAYamEater · 19/04/2018 20:22

im cd 29 today and usually have af by now. latest cd 30.

so i know i should just test and put myself out of my misery - but i know its going to be a bfn.

im really too old to ttc but i got pg 2 years ago - didnt find out till 5 1/2 weeks as wasnt trying so wasnt looking for symptoms but what made me test was having really sore boobs.

i lost that little one in the middle trimester. i was 44 then so now its really a non starter and my lack of period is probably either the menopause beginning or just that i didnt ovulate this month.

i know i need to test to be sure (im putting it off as the disappointment is a killer) but anyone ever been 4 weeks with NO symptoms? no sore boobs? ive had a sudden silly cold which has gone again, a bit of a heightened sense of smell which im putting down to the cold and a bit of very vague nausea but again putting that down to cold - other than that nothing and i definitely dont feel pg so i think im out and think my cycle has just gone awol,
but ill keep hope alive one more night. anyone just not known or thught they werent because they had no early symptoms at all?
thanks

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annlee3817 · 19/04/2018 20:28

I didn't get sore boobs until I was nearly eight weeks and no other symptoms. Take a test, fingers crossed for you

Stephisaur · 19/04/2018 20:29

I didn’t get sore boobs until after my missed period. Obviously everyone is different and I don’t want to get your hopes in unnecessarily.

Why don’t you get a FRER and then you can find out. It can detect hormone up to 6 days before your period x

choccybiscuit · 19/04/2018 20:30

I didn't get sore boobs at all with my first two children. No symptoms at all.

notsomumsymum · 19/04/2018 20:32

I didn’t get any symptoms at all...to the point where I was convinced there would be no baby at my 12 week scan!

Tfoot75 · 19/04/2018 20:34

Tbh I think any symptoms at that stage is often ‘clutching at straws’! (And I was hit by extreme sickness at 6/7 weeks each time). The only real symptom is missing af, so test! (In no way saying that people who do have early symptoms are imagining btw, just that it’s just as normal not to!)

witherwings · 19/04/2018 20:42

I didn’t have any symptoms at all at the beginning with first pregnancy and only realised when I was sick a few days in a row. I still had bleeds and it turned out I was nearly 10 weeks pregnant.

Twickerhun · 19/04/2018 20:46

I didn’t have any symptoms until 9 weeks pg. I think most people’s really early symptoms aren’t actually pregnancy symptoms and 4 weeks is still fairly early.

AmericanBiscuits · 19/04/2018 20:49

I didn't have symptoms at all when I was pregnant. It made me super paranoid but now I've got a lovely DS. Smile

Doje · 19/04/2018 20:50

With DS 1 I didn't have any symptoms at all by my 12 week scan. I can't really remember any at all throughout the pregnancy other than the ones that come with being that size. Oh, and a mahoosive appetite.

Fingers crossed for you OP.

ShesAYamEater · 20/04/2018 00:15

Thanks everyone.

I'm fairly certain it's just a rogue cycle but I'll leave it a few days and test. Cd 30 now.
Normally I know when af due from the usual pms symptoms but absolutely nothing.
Hope lives on another day . Fully expect it to be dashed one way or another.
I have 1 frer but no where seems to sell them locally so I'll need to get some off internet and tbh it feels a bit of a waste. I suppose patience will tell me one way or another. I can do a cheapy test if nothing in a week or so.

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BakedBeans47 · 20/04/2018 00:55

I had no idea I was pregnant with my second despite being 16 days late by the time I tested. I had had no symptoms whatsoever. Contrast with when I was pregnant with my first and I “knew” even before my period was due.

Good luck x

Gem173 · 20/04/2018 06:33

I didn’t have any symptoms, I only felt faint once on way home on the bus! But I tested because we were trying anyway. If I never tested i don’t think I could have known! I’m now 21 weeks and only been sick twice! No symptoms other than bad back. I’d say always test if unsure as lots of people have different symptoms! Goodluck op xx

Gem173 · 20/04/2018 06:35

Also when it was time for period to come, I felt strangely happy and content. No pms or grouchiness or pains! Nor did I have any signs after ovulation that I have conceived. Ie, implantation bleeding

ShesAYamEater · 20/04/2018 07:38

thanks again for sharing. im cd 30 today so if nothing by end of today i will officially be late.
that said last april i had a 50 day cycle - just checked back on ovia. the april before that i got pg.
fuck knows whats going on!

im not going to test today. i really dont think i am pg and think its just another rogue cycle. ill wait a few days and then test to be sure.

normally, from ovulation (around cd 15) to the day af puts in an appearance i get slightly tender boobs but now - nothing. makes me think ive just not ovulated this cycle. i really cant bear to test just yet and face another bfn. im just gonna ride it out for a few days and see if i get any pms symptoms or af.

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ShesAYamEater · 21/04/2018 15:22

well i caved and tested - im pretty sure i got an evap though. pic is on a new thread if anyone wants to have a look and see what they think?
this is why i dont test usually and ive been caught out with evaps before even on pink dye tests so im not getting my hopes up.

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