Advice please

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Robin198 · 16/04/2018 11:38

Hi, this is my first post. Currently 12 weeks pregnant and my husband left yesterday. He was delighted about the pregnancy and has definitely been the driver behind our decision to try. There was no reason for his leaving other than “not wanting to be married any more”. I’m now terrified and feel as if I’m floating alone at sea. I haven’t told friends or family yet as I’m only just 12 weeks. It’s my first pregnancy. Any words of wisdom to get me through a rocky time?

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Mamabear12 · 16/04/2018 11:44

Has he done this before? Any fights happen or out of blue? Do you think there is someone else? The only thing you can do is focus on yourself and the baby. If he is willing to walk out now when you are at a fragile state, he is not trustworthy! I would focus on plan for next steps. Where you could go for support system after baby is born or if your mom could come and help for a bit.

Bluebirdsky · 16/04/2018 12:29

Oh goodness I am sorry that this has happened to you OP
I know it's no excuse but do you think he could be freaking out a bit at the reality of you actually being pregnant and becoming a father? He wouldn't be the first man to do this.
Is there somebody you can choose to confide in about the pregnancy and DH? I really think you are going to need someone to talk to about this.

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