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Mia123456 · 07/04/2018 19:34

I am 8 months pregnant...pls pls don't judge me ...pls ..i know i have made gravely mistake ...fully aware of it..i just nees a good advice PLS

When I found out I am pregnant (have 4 kids already ...and just started new job ) I decided to go through with termination.
Having spoken to a nurse at ms decided I just couldn't go through with it and instead of booking another app with Dr I decided i will do it but never came around doing it ( working nights ...come home to a 15month and 3yr old ) dh goes to.work ...he kept telling me I need to go...but I just kept delaying and delaying .
Now i reached 8 months and I still didnt see anyone...
I am PETRIFIED ...I AM REALLY PETRIFIDE ...CAN pls anyone advice me what to do and if they will want to see me ? Pls
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Mishappening · 07/04/2018 19:36

Are you saying you have not had any ante-natal care? - have I understood this right|? I do not see that as a problem - pop along to your GP and they will sort you out.

Hypermice · 07/04/2018 19:39

Ok it’s important you go and see your doctor - just explain to them what you have here. They will want to do some basic checks on your to make sure you’re healthy and make sure you are cared for for the birth. Basically they just need to get you in the system so that you can give birth safely.

Poptart4 · 07/04/2018 20:12

Op no one is that busy that they cannot go see a doctor for 8 months. I'm not judging you but I think you've been avoiding thinking about this pregnancy by just pretending that it wasn't happening. Understandable if it was unplanned and abit of a shock to you.

Firstly go to a doctor first thing Monday. She will help you get booked into a hospital. I would strongly suggest some counselling to help you come to terms with everything. I think your a high risk for pnd.

Don't feel bad I'm sure your baby will be fine. Good luck with all

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