Missed miscarriage

[SamMallaburn]

We went for an early scan on Sat. Sonographer said I was measuring at 6 weeks 5 days. Sac and fetal pole could be seen but no heartbeat. Said I was measuring at 7mm. We have a rescan on Friday and if still no heartbeat and no growth the want to do a d&c. Does anyone have a similar experience, whether ended in a positive or negative result? X

I first saw the HB last pregnancy at 5+6 then again at 7+1 so they should really be able to see a HB at 6+5... although I do hope I am wrong, for your sake. I had two MMC last year.

I'm on baby 5 now, and have had early scans with all of them due to bleeding.

Not once have I seen a heartbeat before 7 weeks, but they were external scans.

Was yours internal or external? X

They did both x

I would just ride it out till the next app, I know it isn't uncommon to not see the heartbeat that early.

I don't want to fill you with false hope, but equally I wouldn't be jumping to the conclusion that it's a MMC.

My fingers will be crossed for you x

How far along should you be?

It's so hard to see a heartbeat at that gestation. It's the tiniest flicker. It took the sonographer ages to find my babies at 6+5. We were measuring a week behind but at the 12 week scan, put me a week ahead so it's possible that it will turn out ok. Don't lose hope yet but also be prepared. Hope you're ok.

Thank you! Trying to stay positivex

Good luck with your rescan @sammallaburn. It's nerve-wracking. I'm going in to my rescan tomorrow and I'm so so nervous. I don't think it's going to be good, I had a scan last Wednesday, they could see a gestational sac but nothing else and I was measuring behind my 7 weeks by about two weeks. It doesn't add up as I am spot on with dates with my tracking and ov packs. I'm preparing for the worst, even though it's hard not to have a little bit of hope. I had a MMC in January so this is another tough blow.

Really hope you get good news. At 6 -7 weeks it's easy to be out by a couple of days which can have a massive impact on seeing a heartbeat so keep your chin up.

Thank you! I will be thinking about you tomorrow x

Unfortunately the scan turned out as I expected but hoped wouldn't be the case. Not much progress since last week in terms of growth of the sac, she found the fetal pole but no hb so a mmc was diagnosed. I'm booked in next week for a d&c. Very heartbroken today.

Best of luck @SamMaallaburn, I genuinely hope your news will be good. We need all the positive stories we can get to give people like me hope. x

@partyinthekitchen i’m so sorry! Big hugs to you and your partner x

Sadly, it wasn’t good news for me either! X