Help!!

[Pugs1]

I'm pregnant!
Not planned, not the right circumstances, father doesn't want to know!
Please help me, I don't know what to do I'm 23 years old had a stupid one night stand took all the correct precautions eg emergency conception even used a condom which split..
I didn't come on my period so I took some home tests on each one faint positive have come out..
the person I had sex with us very insistent that I have an abortion but I'm not sure I want too! He's only 21 but he should still know the out come of sex!
I literally don't know what to do.. I feel so stupid for getting myself into this situation I'd love to keep the baby but can I really go behind his back and be a single mum?!

@Pugs1 im sorry youve found yourself in this situation and be such a shock to you both have you any friends/family you can talk to and get some support? You choice is yours he cannot make you do anything you dont want to so

Excuse my fat prego fingers apparently i cannot type properly *must be a shock & the choice

Such a tricky situation OP but take your time, don't let him persuade you to do something you don't want to do and be kind to yourself xx

I'm going to have to tell someone soon but I don't know what to say or do he won't even talk to me properly! I know he's younger but he should think about my feelings too!

Absolutely what LMX0 said - the decision is yours and no one can force you to do anything that you aren't happy with. It won't be easy in this situation but reach out to your support network. Really think about what you want but if being a mum is it, then yes you absolutely can do it. Good luck

I'm sorry you're facing a difficult decision!
Take some time to work out what you really want, only you can make this decision. Perhaps you have a gut feeling for what you want?

When did you find out op?

Had negative tests now so I'm really confused...
think I'm going to book an appointment at the doctors!

Found out on Monday!

Hey @Pugs1 I am in a similar situation. Single and pregnant because of failed contraception. Not in a relationship and the fella really pushed for an abortion. I decided to keep it am now 16 weeks in... so lucky that I have a great support of friends and family around me.

You are not stupid, stop blaming yourself. It's what the body is made to do, so nature will find a way against all odds sometimes. Good luck whatever the outcome!!

My boyfriend is 19 - had our son when he was 17 a 21 year old is fully capable x