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Can someone shed some light on this bleeding? Pics included!

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Catherine0201 · 07/03/2018 18:08

First off I’ll apologise for even showing you this but I really need peace of mind, picking that over my dignity here haha. I’ve had 3 mc before, this is my fourth pregnancy, had last mc in January. Found I was pregnant again right after so unsure how many weeks etc. First off had my bloods done they were rising by 10 in a 2 day period, following that it increased only by 5 so suspected ectopic. Went back yesterday ( a week later) for bloods and my levels had gone from 200 to 1010. Was very shocked. Had another scan today as nurse all thought ectopic but found a little sac with a heartbeat in my womb. So shocked! But I’ve had this brown /black bleeding the past 2/4 days. Nurse said she thinks impantation but I’ve had implantation bleed before and it wasn’t like this. Opinions? (P.s I put a tissue over the pad whilst I was out today as I was worried about leaking through, although it isn’t that heavy, just me bein paranoid)

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Catherine0201 · 11/03/2018 21:27

My bleeding is heavy and my hcg levels have gone down from my last blood test by 700 so they definitely say it’s miscarriage. I’m a bit down as (I’m 20) and I hadn’t told my dad anything that happened. I messaged him told him everything that I was in hospital was miscarrying and their keeping me in overnight. I really didn’t want to keep it from him and my sister encouraged me to tell him. My moms told me he’s gone off on one really angry, said he’s never been so disappointed, mom said he’s never been this angry before, he’s not interested in seeing me. I just thought he’d care, my mom doesn’t want to wind my dad up so she’s not coming either

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ClangerTwanger · 11/03/2018 22:52

Sorry you’re going through this Catherine, my heart aches for you. But your parents sound like cunts. Excuse the language but how awful can they be!? You need support and love after this extremely distressing time and they’re ‘disappointed’. Wow. Beggars belief!

I’m here for you, we all are chick. Sending you love and support xxxxxxxxxxx

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PinkAvocado · 11/03/2018 23:00

So sorry you’re experiencing this and your parents are not doing enough. Flowers

CRZ1988 · 11/03/2018 23:19

@Catherine0201 I'm so so sorry you're going through this. Please be kind to yourself.

I hope the next few days are easier on you and you find some peace.

Sending you love and echo the pp who said we're here for you xxxx

Isadora2007 · 11/03/2018 23:27

Oh bless you. How horrible that your parents are not being supportive. I’m so very sorry for your loss. I hope you are in good hands in hospital and I’m thinking of you. So sorry, life can really suck. 💕

tinkerbellone · 11/03/2018 23:31

Sending you love and hugs. I'm so sad for you about your potential loss and your parents' reactions.
This might be a online forum but you're not alone. Xx

Catherine0201 · 12/03/2018 08:48

I just feel so upset because now I can’t even go home and have to stay at my boyfriends when I really wanted my family :( Thankyou everyone, I tried to text my dad and said I want my family with me and he messaged me back and said “bye”

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Tiggy78 · 12/03/2018 09:26

Oh Catherine. I’m sorry.

somersetsoul · 12/03/2018 10:52

I'm so sorry your in this situation. Your dad will come round, give him time. How are you feeling? X

howmuchtoomuch · 12/03/2018 12:03

Oh OP, that's so sad for you. Did your DF not know about your pregnancy? I hope you get looked after by people that love you.

Catherine0201 · 13/03/2018 15:30

Dad came to visit me today but left as soon as he realised my boyfriend was on the way. He barely said anything when he was here. I had a vaccum thing put up me this morning was so traumatising and painful I was screaming:( just recovering now, waiting for an injection because I have negative blood. Can’t believe I’ve been here over 2 days now :(

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somersetsoul · 13/03/2018 20:52

I hope you get home soon op. Have you got any friends who can visit?

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