Currently 21+3 with first child. Partner has a routine of going on holiday for a week with mates in May each year abroad. He broached the subject on Saturday and asked me if I would be okay with him going this year. By this time I will be 7+ months. I asked him what if something happened while you were away? He said well it will be 2 months before due date if he goes early May. One of his past holidays caused me a lot of stress which landed me in hospital as he and his mates were there at the same time as a woman he had previously snagged a few times whilst on holiday and it appeared they all spent time together over that week. So I said it depends how stressed I am going to be to which he replied that if I'm not happy he won't go. I don't want to tell him he can't go. My friend thinks that it's ridiculous that he's even mentioned it this year considering the circumstances. Am I being unreasonable here?