Need advice, 21 pregnant and single.

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I’m confused, scared and worried! I’m only 21 and I’m single. This one of the hardest decisions I’ve ever had to make in my life, I need advice from singles mums please x

You have to mske The decision that you can live with (if you are asking if you should end the pregnancy or not)
I’m a single parent to two.
It’s very hard.
Miss out on going out, opportunities, dating.

That said, my children are the best thing that ever happened to me.

Maybe look into counselling to work out what you want and get more information? You could contact Brook-they specialise in the under 25s.
www.brook.org.uk/your-life/category/pregnancy

OP I'm so sorry you're in this situation. There is a lot of support to help you make the right decision for you. You have choices and options whatever you decide. No-one will (or should) judge whatever your decision for this baby.

Can you speak to your parents or a sibling? You absolutely don't need to feel alone in this. ❤️

I was a single mum at 21
My DC is now 7
I went to my mum and spoke to her, decided I 100% wanted the baby and she supported me - she still does :-)
Yes, it is hard - but it does get easier.

Maybe you could confide in a friend / family member? I know it may seem scary but that’s what families are for - if you was my daughter I’d want you to come to me (I don’t know you’re fanily situation) you could also contact agencies to talk through your options if you wanted too x