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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Anyone newly single and pregnant

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Luxi · 28/01/2018 18:32

20 weeks pregnant and feeling a little lost, just wonder if anyone else has had a relationship break down while pregnant?

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Sammifranzeska · 29/01/2018 13:42

Hi hope your ok. I'm in the same situation. I'm 21 plus 6 and been so single since before new year. But to be honest, we weren't right after telling him I was pregnant. It was unplanned and he hasn't taken it well. Here if you would like to talk as I get how hard it is.

Luxi · 29/01/2018 14:47

Yeah to be honest he was really excited and still do this day acts excited, but makes now effort to get a new job to be close to us (at the moment we are 4 hours apart) I've bought everything myself and he hasn't even given me a penny. And emotionally it's been hard for me and his lack of support is just insane... finally I lost it and just thought you know what it would be so much easier doing this alone rather than having someone I can't count on. Found out I was having a boy on Friday and now I'm just trying to be really focused. Do you have good support around you? Xxxx

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Sammifranzeska · 29/01/2018 22:14

Yeah you are better off. I've found it easier now it's all done with us as it was messing with my head. I've got really good support around me Smile. And congrats, I'm having a girl and yeah my ex hasn't bought anything or helped with money or anything at all. He's missed all scans and appointments xx

Luxi · 29/01/2018 23:01

Why are some men so crap!!!! Honestly, I feel like the further along I'm getting the stronger I'm getting! It's lonely and I wish I had a partner to share the experiences with, but at the same time... I'm so going to have a mummy's boy! Haha. I've got great support too so I guess we are very lucky!!! I just hate telling people I'm going to be a single mum, I find it awkward! Do you? Xxx

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Sammifranzeska · 31/01/2018 12:31

Yeah I'm still struggling with it but know I'm better off without him. I just keep worring about silly things like bathing baby... And yeah I feel crap telling people I'm single but can't help it so try not to worry about it xx

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