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Due date - confused

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laurenforbes · 24/01/2018 20:25

Hey I'm currently 21 weeks 6days pregnant. The midwife said I'm due 8th May I worked it out to be June? I asked another midwife who said 8th May. But I just don't see how? Any advice? So confused.

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Notasperfectasallothermners · 24/01/2018 20:26

The day your period is late you are classed as 4 weeks pregnant.

Coconutspongexo · 24/01/2018 20:28

If you’re due 8th May that would mean you’re 25/26 weeks preg. Have the calculated that right? Or are you counting your missed period as your first week preg?

Coconutspongexo · 24/01/2018 20:29

Your even 😡

Coconutspongexo · 24/01/2018 20:29

No I was right the first time omg sorry. Ignore me I’ve annoyed myself 😂

pastabest · 24/01/2018 20:30

I'm 20 weeks and due early/mid June.

I think either your midwife must have made a mistake or you are more than 21/22 weeks pregnant

carringtonm · 24/01/2018 20:31

I'm 20w+5 and due 8th June so if your week is correct you'd be a similar time to me.

SomebodysNotInBedYet · 24/01/2018 20:37

When was the first day of your last period?

laurenforbes · 25/01/2018 08:01

I've had periods all the way through.
They worked out how far gone I was by a scan
Like I put on the original post I've not worked it out myself midwives have.

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HerSymphonyAndSong · 25/01/2018 08:03

Either you have the number of weeks wrong or the due date. What does it say in your notes?

HerSymphonyAndSong · 25/01/2018 08:04

What was the date of your dating scan, and how far along did they say you were at that point? You should have the notes from this

Mummyloves09 · 25/01/2018 08:09

I'm 21w and due 7th June. Check through your notes.

Changedmynameo · 25/01/2018 08:19

31 May based on you being 22 weeks today. I just went into my calendar and counted forward to 40 weeks

TonicClonicAndTheWaves · 25/01/2018 08:21

I'm 22 weeks today and due on 31/5

laurenforbes · 25/01/2018 08:23

I had my first scan two weeks ago when I found out I was pregnant from this scan they told me how far gone I am and then gave me the due date.
It was then re checked by my midwife hence why I'm so confused..

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laurenforbes · 25/01/2018 08:24

Surely they can't just get it wrong? I've put my maternity down based on this date they've given me if they have worked it out wrong I'm a month out Hmm

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Changedmynameo · 25/01/2018 08:33

My midwife has some how managed to get it wrong before. She's said "so how many weeks are you today" I said. She got her little circle chart thing out and said "so bla bla due date" I said "no, this date" and no matter how many times she turned her stupid guide she couldn't get the right date. And then said "oh, a few days doesn't make a difference"😂 Your due date IS 31/5

HerSymphonyAndSong · 25/01/2018 08:36

Go by the scan dates - that’s what it’s for

Wow1234 · 25/01/2018 08:41

I think you should ring your midwife and explain that the dates don't make sense and ask her to confirm.

pastabest · 25/01/2018 08:41

You should be able to change your maternity leave these things aren't really set in stone.

In your notes you should have a piece of paper from your scan. It will say in it a few measurements and will give how many weeks gestation you were at the time of the scan.

Maybe the midwife mispoke and meant 8th June?

Coconutspongexo · 25/01/2018 08:45

Hersymphony - except if the scan dates are saying OP Is 21 weeks the due date is wrong...

HerSymphonyAndSong · 25/01/2018 08:53

But it’s the midwife who is giving a different due date isn’t it? Not the scan

Coconutspongexo · 25/01/2018 08:55

Yes so she still needs to tell the midwife her due date they’ve put down is wrong going by the scan..

Winifredgoose10 · 25/01/2018 08:59

Go by the scan. The due date the midwives have worked out is wrong. I am 22 and 1 today and due date is 30th May. If the scan says you were 21 + 6 yesterday, you are due on the 31st of May. Check scan info sheet(in case it is you who has made the mistake with dates), then tell midwives they have made a mistake.

HerSymphonyAndSong · 25/01/2018 09:23

So my comment stands - go by the scan dates as the dating scan is specifically for that purpose

unicorncow · 25/01/2018 09:54

You should be due 31st May if you are 22 weeks today

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